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Forum: Advice 05-06-2015, 19:55
Replies: 50
Views: 4,994
Posted By vintage_girl
I think this thread is fake, but on the off...

I think this thread is fake, but on the off chance that it's true....why would you be friends with someone like this in the first place? You clearly don't agree with drug use, so un-invite her and...
Forum: General Discussion 05-06-2015, 19:48
Replies: 40
Views: 1,207
Posted By vintage_girl
I can confirm this is the case :D

I can confirm this is the case :D
Forum: General Discussion 05-06-2015, 19:44
Replies: 102
Views: 4,810
Posted By vintage_girl
Er, I'd have thought it would be a given that no...

Er, I'd have thought it would be a given that no woman is going to want an unemployed man on drugs, unless she's herself in that situation, in which case she isn't going to be picky. I also wouldn't...
Forum: General Discussion 17-05-2015, 14:22
Replies: 126
Views: 6,076
Posted By vintage_girl
So sad that charities have become like big...

So sad that charities have become like big businesses with aggressive sales tactics. They're even worse than the companies selling stuff - at least with them you know they're pushing a product for...
Forum: General Discussion 26-04-2015, 18:47
Replies: 122
Views: 5,708
Posted By vintage_girl
Swoon over Little Mermaid stuff. I even bought an...

Swoon over Little Mermaid stuff. I even bought an Ariel doll from the Disney shop, as I always wanted one as a kid but never got it.

Kick autumn leaves and play in the snow.

Check under the beds...
Forum: Advice 26-04-2015, 17:53
Replies: 17
Views: 1,819
Posted By vintage_girl
23 and you feel like you're behind! Your life is...

23 and you feel like you're behind! Your life is only just beginning! Don't think that everyone's out having this amazing time, plenty of people that age are pretty inexperienced. Life isn't a race....
Forum: Advice 26-04-2015, 17:20
Replies: 18
Views: 1,330
Posted By vintage_girl
Utter rubbish, have you ever been to places like...

Utter rubbish, have you ever been to places like Nessebar or Veliko Tarnovo? Not a lot of grey buildings in sight, plenty of quaint little houses and historical stuff.
The food can be either good or...
Forum: Advice 25-04-2015, 09:38
Replies: 17
Views: 1,819
Posted By vintage_girl
Everyone has a past, you say you've had two...

Everyone has a past, you say you've had two relationships - so you do too. It doesn't matter how many people she's been with before, just focus on the present moment. You can still be in love with...
Forum: Advice 24-04-2015, 23:13
Replies: 47
Views: 5,549
Posted By vintage_girl
You don't say in your opening post what they...

You don't say in your opening post what they think the problem is - why did they put you in performance management, and why are they finding faults? Be honest with yourself - are they really picking...
Forum: Advice 21-04-2015, 17:31
Replies: 56
Views: 3,122
Posted By vintage_girl
I bet all the posters taking the mick out of the...

I bet all the posters taking the mick out of the OP are men. Not to be sexist, but men just don't understand about shoes. It'd be totally gutted if someone lost a pair of mine. I think going to CAB...
Forum: Advice 07-04-2015, 21:20
Replies: 33
Views: 3,389
Posted By vintage_girl
I've had many tragic things happen to me, but...

I've had many tragic things happen to me, but it's been more events that have affected me emotionally rather than physically. I can't imagine what you must be going through, OP. I don't think there's...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 23:36
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
On the contrary, IMO you're over-complicating...

On the contrary, IMO you're over-complicating something that is essentially very simple.

It doesn't take years, or to be a rocket scientist, to figure out whether you're in love. It's either there...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 23:11
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
That's what I'm worried about, I fear I might...

That's what I'm worried about, I fear I might have ruined things.

I obviously don't want him to say it for the sake of it. It just hurts to love someone and not have those feelings returned, that's...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 23:07
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
I think actions are important too, but the...

I think actions are important too, but the difference is you're secure in the knowledge that he loves you.
On the other hand I know he doesn't, it's not an assumption, because he told me so. He said...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 22:29
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
I guess it's a bit of both...I don't know, I...

I guess it's a bit of both...I don't know, I can't define it, when you feel it you just know, don't you?

His parents and friends are nice, just typical "middle class" people, they're more open with...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 21:39
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
You can do all of those things and still not be...

You can do all of those things and still not be in love with someone. I think love is an essential part of a relationship - without it you're just 2 people hanging out and having sex. It's nothing to...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 21:36
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
Just the usual "couple" things: going to the...

Just the usual "couple" things: going to the cinema, watching films/TV at each other's houses, going out for dinner or getting a takeaway, cooking for each other, going to the beach, weekends away...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 21:19
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
I know it looks that way from the side, but he's...

I know it looks that way from the side, but he's really not that kind of person, he's very shy and reserved when it come to women, and has not had many sexual partners or relationships (I'm his...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 21:18
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those people...

Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those people who needs to hear it every day. Just as long as I knew he felt it, that would be fine - but he's explicitly told me he doesn't, yet.
To me that's...
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 21:14
Replies: 222
Views: 23,803
Posted By vintage_girl
Aargh, all the arguing... I think it's OK to have...

Aargh, all the arguing...
I think it's OK to have friends of the opposite sex but that level of closeness is weird. Who has a "best friend" in their 30s anyway? It's all a bit...high school-ish....
Forum: Advice 06-04-2015, 20:37
Replies: 28
Views: 1,738
Posted By vintage_girl
How long to wait?

Hi everyone, I can't find the original thread, but basically a couple of months ago I posted for advice on whether to tell my boyfriend I love him or wait for him to say it (we were together for five...
Forum: Advice 04-04-2015, 20:35
Replies: 222
Views: 23,803
Posted By vintage_girl
OMG I can't believe you're even deliberating this...

OMG I can't believe you're even deliberating this OP! If I were you I wouldn't stand for this at all. The whole situation is just...odd. For the following reasons:

-A 35 year old man being "friends"...
Forum: Advice 02-04-2015, 20:06
Replies: 32
Views: 2,419
Posted By vintage_girl
Surely age doesn't matter for men? You don't have...

Surely age doesn't matter for men? You don't have a biological clock ticking or anything. I don't think I've ever though of a man (or a woman for that matter) as being sad for being single...and I...
Forum: Advice 01-04-2015, 20:25
Replies: 32
Views: 2,419
Posted By vintage_girl
Aw, OP, *hugs*. I think most people have already...

Aw, OP, *hugs*.

I think most people have already given good advice, but here are my thoughts on the matter:

-6 months really isn't very long (for me it's not even enough time to get over a break-up...
Forum: General Discussion 16-03-2015, 08:08
Replies: 113
Views: 3,645
Posted By vintage_girl
The OP has a point. People from my home country...

The OP has a point. People from my home country who live in the UK call themselves emigrants. The British call them immigrants (and not in a nice way, especially UKIP).

But British people living in...
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