Digital Spy

Search Digital Spy
 

DS Forums

 
 

Showing results 1 to 25 of 500
Search took 3.38 seconds.
Search: Key Word(s): ; Posts Made By: !!11oneone
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 18:37
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Yup, just therapy. How can I say I'm against...

Yup, just therapy. How can I say I'm against something unless I've properly thought about it? In writing, I have to organise and think through the subject. It's not written as a rant, because...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 18:24
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
I haven't said anything on the blog which I...

I haven't said anything on the blog which I haven't discussed here, though obviously the blog has space for me to expand on my reasoning more.

But since its obviously not the done thing, I'll...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 17:46
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
No, not at all. Else wouldn't I have posted the...

No, not at all. Else wouldn't I have posted the blog 13 pages and three days ago? Also, why would the blog itself be exactly the same story and not just my thoughts on veganism? I added it only when...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 16:17
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Vegans don't think so...

Vegans don't think so...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 15:54
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
If anyone wants to enjoy my anti vegan rants,...

If anyone wants to enjoy my anti vegan rants, (actually, considered opinions on the subject) I'll just leave this here

http://bit.ly/16COt1f

Comments are turned off because I literally couldn't...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 14:05
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
There we have it, folks. The vegan has spoken,...

There we have it, folks. The vegan has spoken, and since they're only ones who actually know right from wrong, this must be the end of the thread.

Thanks to everyone for their support, advice and...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 13:38
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Like I said, it's important to me. Whether it's...

Like I said, it's important to me. Whether it's important to you is irrelevant, really. It's important because I find veganism a huge turn off. I'm less attracted to her. I'd never have gone out with...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 12:48
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
This is it, and what's I've been doing. Though we...

This is it, and what's I've been doing. Though we need to talk in January, even if nothing is immediately decided. But at the moment it impinges too much - the "otherwise lovely" is only when there's...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 12:18
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
To defend myself on that point, there are very...

To defend myself on that point, there are very few things that would make me feel like this. I know as soon as we have money, the holidays would not be to anywhere I particularly want to go. That's...
Forum: Advice 20-12-2014, 11:20
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
It is really unfair to ask your partner not to be...

It is really unfair to ask your partner not to be something you both said was wrong?
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 19:52
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
The reason I'd leave if it was all three of them...

The reason I'd leave if it was all three of them is simple. I do not want to be the one awkward person opting out of family meals, just like I don't like that she is. I wouldn't do what she is doing....
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 18:38
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Actually yes, I have. I wondered if I should just...

Actually yes, I have. I wondered if I should just send her the link.

Though there's some dangerous stuff in here which could just wind her up...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 18:36
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Maybe so. We need to talk and I'll steer it more...

Maybe so. We need to talk and I'll steer it more towards feeling underappreciated and rejected. Take it from there. Trouble is, vegan bestie will hear all about it and tell her I'm being silly and...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 18:34
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Like I said. It's important to me, and I know...

Like I said. It's important to me, and I know it's not important to others.

We've just been talking about dinner and ordering things we need over Christmas. Frankly, I think she's being utterly...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 18:15
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
I actually contacted a counselling service a few...

I actually contacted a counselling service a few days ago, but obviously it'll be January until anything happens.

In the meantime I've just been told off for not wanting vegan cream. Not only does...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 17:48
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
She says I'm the most patient, kind, supportive ...

She says I'm the most patient, kind, supportive and tolerant person she's met. Though she knows I don't support her veganism.

But yes, from my side it's certainly a rejection and a feeling that my...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 17:17
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
This is it entirely. And over 11 pages you've all...

This is it entirely. And over 11 pages you've all really helped me organise what I need to say and how to explain myself.
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 17:07
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
I don't know. I genuinely don't know what the...

I don't know. I genuinely don't know what the outcome of the discussion could be.

Can you think of a compromise? Because I can't. I hate it. I haven't been able to live with it without counting to...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 16:26
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
I'm not telling her she can't. I'm simply saying...

I'm not telling her she can't. I'm simply saying that it's a decision which affects our lifestyle, and that as much as she can choose her lifestyle, so can I.

Sadly in a relationship, you can't do...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 16:23
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Space to discuss it, advice on how to approach...

Space to discuss it, advice on how to approach it. You're right, I've had plenty of good advice on how to approach it and what to say. Which is what I wanted.

If it'd been 10 pages of "dump her"...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 15:36
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
No one is more surprised about the length of this...

No one is more surprised about the length of this thread than me...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 15:34
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
I've spent 9 pages explaining why it matters. But...

I've spent 9 pages explaining why it matters. But that's part of the problem. Her diet is so damn important to her that she's happy doing something I hate. And yet, I'm not allowed to say that...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 15:21
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
If I wasn't anti-vegan I wouldn't have a problem....

If I wasn't anti-vegan I wouldn't have a problem. :confused:
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 15:18
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
Soy is awful (as is tofu) and one of the most...

Soy is awful (as is tofu) and one of the most destructive crops around. As is palm oil, usually just labelled vegetable oil because of its negative press, and the most frequent replacement for butter...
Forum: Advice 19-12-2014, 15:09
Replies: 328
Views: 17,741
Posted By !!11oneone
The last discussion was 2 weeks ago. I made it...

The last discussion was 2 weeks ago. I made it clear that I was struggling with the whole idea of staying with her, but that I was trying and didn't want to just walk away.

There's been little...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 500

 
Forum Jump

All times are GMT. The time now is 04:12.