Haha! (Not laughing about abuse obviously, but your comment about feeling cheated).
My younger sister experienced abuse, and is gay. My mum, bless her, still hopes it is a phase, but also wonders if the abuse made her gay.
And anyone who might say 'get over it'? They can get stuffed!
I know my dissenters will perhaps feel I am being vindictive, but the simple truth is I know and have known a lot of gay people. The link between abuse and homosexuality is a lot larger than people think.