Of course you may ask and of course I will answer.
Elton John and David Furnish are not running away to a third world country (your words btw) and exploiting someone.
I'm 100% certain that they have a legally binding business contract with someone and I just cannot compare that to someone selling a kidney for money to feed their children.
Its a nonsensical argument to say that my children still had me when their father died because, as I said earlier, tomorrow isn't promised to anyone..............least of all me.
My cousin and his wife were both killed in a carcrash and two teenagers were left without parents so age really doesn't come into it.
I agree we have to disagree as it sounds as if you have a lot more inside knowledge than me about the woman involved in Elton's arrangement with the Californian agency and her personal circumstances. [BTW I have never suggested that Elton and David used a third world country for their arrangement - I am perfectly aware of the agency they used in California which is very well known - I mentioned in the context of my reasons for disliking these surrogacies that most of them in Europe use third world countries because they are much cheaper and most couples cannot afford to pay what Elton has paid for his child(ren)] Anywhoo ...