If you think middle aged ladies would worry about whether someone is gay or not, you have never been to a Barrowman concert
Older ladies love gay men. Sorry to disappoint.
I can never understand why people's sexuality is so important to other people. Michael Ball seems to be a lovely man and his preferences are of no interest to me at all.
I also don't understand why gay people are so keen on others 'coming out'. Why is it so important?
Surely in this day and age there are more than enough role models for younger gays to follow.