I am a woman in my 40's and would not want to get caught up with either of them.
He is a crooner. Not my cup of Rosie at all. But I can't understand why he is not honest can you?
Have you changed your profile to being a 49 year old female? I'm almost certain you were male previously and probably, from your posts, a lot younger. I have a very good memory and you were male in your profile, But that would not be honest?
I don't believe you are a 49 year old female. It makes no sense and neither do you, sorry.