Since this thread has been bumped I have had the opportunity to read this reply to my earlier post.
I lost three close family members in ten years and alcohol played a part in each. Thanks a bunch. Not entirely sure what you want me to shove, or where, but thanks none the less.
I'm so sorry for your losses My Sweet Life,from personal experience too i wish alcohol wasn't so readily available,people don't realise the thin line between enjoying having a drink and having a problem with alcohol
-i do hope you are ok x