And selfishness. One of the first things in a relationship is an ability to compromise on some things & have give & take. She only gives material things,but no concessions to lifestyle. How can you demand a new husband keep his stuff at his Mum's ? Different if your gaff is tiny & there is no room for exercise gear etc---but she has a mansion ,more than enough room to give him a room for his own stuff where she won't have to look at it or trip over it.