Haven't we all.
Nobody as said directly to me "I tolerate your sexuality". But I have been in conversations where people have said they 'tolerate' homosexuality. Usually followed by the "as long as they don't flaunt it
" comment, as if it is a prerequisite for gay people to do that.
Mind you I don't like fellow straight couples doing that either
I used to live in Brighton so have no problem with PDA.
I'm a big fan of Derek Jacobi and had no idea for decades he was gay (or straight for that matter, either way never occurred to me), not sure if he is in or out though.