Oh for pete's sake.
Yes, of course *some* family members are complicit in what their criminal other halves do, but why assume that's the norm and applies across the board? Why condemn everyone with a family member in prison with that ridiculously narrow and biased brushstroke?
Where did i say they are complicit? Knowing is not complicit, is it.
Anyway. Having thought a bit more. I do agree that there are some situations where the spouse will suffer hardship, like if her pedophile husband gets locked up. And she'll struggle without his premier league wages
But if you're talking Wayne & Waynetta and Waynes doing 15 for burgling my house. You think Waynetta deserves charity? I don't, because she knew dam well what would happen if Wayne got caught.