I think the fact think "Birds of a Feather" was a fly on the wall documentary provides a clue to their reasoning skills. Assuming they aren't just trolling. Hard to tell on here sometimes.
As for the charitable donation - good for her. It is commendable to think about which charities actually need support, and not just go for something fashionable.
Lol I used to watch Birds of A Feather but I don't remember specific details about episodes, apart from the one where Dorian sings Like a Virgin in a nightclub