I'm sorry and no disrespect but at 50 I would of thought her head would be screwed on enough to say. I'm not going through all that again. She should be looking forward to enjoying her grand kids.
And tbh. I do think they are being selfish wanted to raise a small child at her age. I don't see it being fair on the child.
And like someone else has said why do people feel like just because they are in a new relationship they have to have a child together.