Actually I do feel sorry for decent people who's son or daughter murders someone, I should imagine they have an unbearable sense of guilt; I don't think that they need any charity donation though, & it doesn't alter the fact that it was a naive decision by the actress.
Are you just being deliberately dense? Or do you genuinely not understand how charities work?
For clarity, donations are what enable the service
to continue, not to provide for the families of prisoners.