Hang on, so If you are gay, there is a rule that says you must adopt? You aren't allowed to use your perfectly healthy sperm to conceive your own child?
Adoption is a completely separate issue. Do you also think if a heterosexual couple are having trouble conceiving they have to adopt? You don't believe in IVF or surrogacy here?
Why do so many people on here have issues with surrogacy? A comment before about buying a baby? It's not really true...surrogates get paid for medical expenses, time not in work, for new clothes etc etc to ensure the baby is healthy and grows well.
You aren't any better parent because you made a baby by conventional methods. I don't go to my mum and dad and thank them for having sex, as that's the main reason I think they are the best parents in the world! Parenting is way more than that..come on!
God people make me so angry.
I think you're being a bit over dramatic.
I'm a gay man and I'd love nothing more than to start a family when I'm older with my partner of 6 years however I do think that because we obviously can't have children naturally then it is a little my responsibility to adopt/foster from the thousands of children out there who haven't been given what they deserve in life. I would feel guilty going down the surrogate route and I think anyone doing this or IVF really should at least consider adoption first.