I just cannot believe that people who happily and DELIBERATELY deny their baby the love and security of his/her mother, especially in the formative years, can truly have the child's best interests at heart...only their own.
I waited a long time to have children, as I didn't meet my husband until my mid thirties. If I hadn't met him, I wouldn't have had children, as no way would I deliberately choose to deny my precious children the love of a father.
But no one really seems bothered that these men are happy to deny their children a MOTHER of all things??!!
One of the most, if not THE most, important figures a child can have in his/her life.
But as long as they get their baby, right...So utterly selfish.