Are you deliberately misunderstanding me? I didn't say 'they don't have emotional investment'. I said, it would be possible for someone to have no emotional investment and for it to be like a purchase. And I don't know where I mentioned gay men either? I did mention a baby being taken from it's mother and left without one. And gave the opinion that doing that isn't really thinking of the baby first. It's thinking of the person who wants the baby.
I am not deliberately misunderstanding you I just like you are being very narrow minded.