Where did I say anything about narcissism and vanity?
People are demonising women on the thread, not neccessarily you, although you did say "
We have seen many women utterly screw up their children and fail at being a parent"
I said it isn't putting the baby first, allowing anyone who can afford one to get one, needing no emotional involvement whatsoever, just cash. It's my opinion. No need to agree if you don't want to.
Women aren't being demonised on this thread. It's simply being pointed out that giving birth doesn't automatically make someone a good mother and some children who are raised by mothers don't turn into well adjusted adults.