The people that keep coming here to moan that there's something wrong about a thead with a title that you DON'T have to read, ask yourselves: a.) why you keep coming back then b.) you don't have to click the link if it annoys you. Simples...?
There are a zillion other threads on other topics (many of which the dreaded 'gay men' here get involved with too).
Why is it okay for straight girls and women to ask questions and wonder/assume, but not anyone else? Hmmm...It's not as if we're all waving placards outside peoples houses.