Excuse me, I didnt bring children into this first you did.
My posts were neither inconsiderate or cruel. Although grief is not a game of oneupmanship I suspect most people would find the death of a child more tragic than that of an addict and that is why I disagreed with your comment. It does not mean that I am not saddened by this awful turn of events.
Most people would consider the death of a child worse than the death of a grown-up full stop - it's all about how much life you got to experience before you died. You don't necessarily have to be doing drugs for you choices to have led to your death as a grown-up either.