question for men

candyfloss2000 · 16/02/13 - 05:19

i went out with lovebites all over my neck - as a male, what would be your first reaction/thought? - also, i was flirting with you on the phone and planned to meet you,and showed up with said huge obvious lovebites....

HaloJoe · 16/02/13 - 05:22

I would be ok with it, it wouldn't bother me or put me off tbh.

Hugh Jboobs · 16/02/13 - 05:27

candyfloss2000 wrote: »

i went out with lovebites all over my neck - as a male, what would be your first reaction/thought? - also, i was flirting with you on the phone and planned to meet you,and showed up with said huge obvious lovebites....

I'd probably wonder what I was doing flirting with a pubescent teenage girl to be honest. Does anyone above the age of 13 give lovebites these days?!

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 07:28

Hugh Jboobs wrote: »

I'd probably wonder what I was doing flirting with a pubescent teenage girl to be honest. Does anyone above the age of 13 give lovebites these days?!

Yes! I found out recently, someone gave me 3 massive ones the night before I was starting a new job! Could have died!

Cissy Fairfax · 16/02/13 - 07:55

You'd be.ok with me. I dont think I'd know an obvious love bite if I saw one.

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 08:01

Well it would put me right off . Turning up for a date covered in love bites would mean a swift exit , and no mistake .
It gives the wrong impression totally .

It would be your loss as well because I'm a good catch

SJ_Mental · 16/02/13 - 08:03

My first thought would be oo-er jail bait.

Pretinama · 16/02/13 - 08:42

I'd probably think the person with the love bites was quite common and not the sort of person I'd be dating. It would put me off.

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 08:43

It's probably not right, but if you were flirting with me then met up with me with love bites all over you, I would think you're a ****.

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 08:50

I'd wonder where you got the love bites from for sure, and why you were flirting with me and planned on meeting me while getting said love bites elsewhere.

mounty · 16/02/13 - 08:57

I'd presume you like to have a good time

Addisonian · 16/02/13 - 09:25

I'd presume you were a dirty little skank. Perhaps wrongly of course but I cannot abide lovebites. Anyone who wants to brandished with a type of bruise in order to let the world know that they have had someone sucking on their neck - or elsewhere - needs their head read.

spanglerokapi · 16/02/13 - 11:36

Last time I had one was when the dental nurse dropped the suction pipe on my neck whilst I was having treatment. It took some explaining I can tell you.:(

droogiefret · 16/02/13 - 11:42

spanglerokapi wrote: »

Last time I had one was when the dental nurse dropped the suction pipe on my neck whilst I was having treatment. It took some explaining I can tell you.:(

Yeah .... right .....;)

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 11:49

I'd think you're flirting and meeting up with me and probably other men while you have a husband and kids at home. So I'd instantly think you're just a cheater and can't be trusted.

Mordirith · 16/02/13 - 21:59

candyfloss2000 wrote: »

i went out with lovebites all over my neck - as a male, what would be your first reaction/thought? - also, i was flirting with you on the phone and planned to meet you,and showed up with said huge obvious lovebites....

Gotta stop dating these crazy teens!

JB3 · 16/02/13 - 22:01

i am not 13.

j4the1 · 16/02/13 - 22:03

I would deffinately sleep with you.

JB3 · 16/02/13 - 22:04

j4the1 wrote: »

I would deffinately sleep with you.

thank you.

gemma-the-husky · 16/02/13 - 22:22

just on the neck?

(this is snog, marry , avoid territory)

David_Hill · 16/02/13 - 22:24

If we were meeting up for casual sex then I wouldn't be bothered but if we were going on a date or I was interested in you, I'd think you were a **** and not worth the trouble.

j4the1 · 16/02/13 - 22:25

JB3 wrote: »

thank you.

Your welcome.

D***** · 16/02/13 - 22:30

I'd think nothing of it if I saw you out.

But if we were meeting up after flirting together I'd assume you were easy... and see you as 'used goods' :eek: I know that sounds horrific as you aren't an object but I can think of no more accurate way to describe it from a man's point of view. Like having a sandwich with a big bite taken out of it by someone else. Sorry if that offends but it's the best way I can describe it:o

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 22:31

JB3 wrote: »

thank you.

Don't thank him, he doesn't do safe sex!

JB3 · 16/02/13 - 22:35

geniusgirl wrote: »

Don't thank him, he doesn't do safe sex!

But I floss.

[Deleted User] · 16/02/13 - 22:58

candyfloss2000 wrote: »

i went out with lovebites all over my neck - as a male, what would be your first reaction/thought? - also, i was flirting with you on the phone and planned to meet you,and showed up with said huge obvious lovebites....

I'd think "I don't want some other guy's sloppy seconds and if she didn't even bother to cover them up with make up, she's obviously showing she doesn't care about our date as much as she does showing off her conquest trophies. I think I'll say I'm feeling ill and say I'll call her but know I never will. I'll leave her and whoever else gave her those lovebites to their own thing, I deserve better."

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