[DoctorQui]

Originally Posted by glasshalffull

So this kid has neglectful biological mother, a father away all week and a younger half sibling who may well be getting what she perceives as a greater share of parental attention.

She's allowed seemingly unfettered access to the internet and a mobile phone/TV etc

I would not dismiss abuse...however my inclination would be to consider first the "attention seeking" aspect of this behaviour.

And kids learn very early and quickly what types of behaviour are most likely to wind up their parents...you see nursery age kids going round saying "poo poo" and "wee wee" at inappropriate situations just to get a parental reaction.

I wonder too how much she is aware of the father's reaction and using the mixed messages/reactions of him and step mother to play them off against each other...divide and rule.

As a starting point I would advise these parents to

1) Remove access to phone and internet except under supervision
2) Give more attention to this girl in positive ways
3) Make it very clear to her that the things she has been doing are totally unacceptable for a kid her age and putting her in danger
4) Report to the school the fact this sexting has been going on...without necessarily naming other kids...then leave it to them to decide what to do.

Constructive, thank you