Ollie saying Women won't sleep with him because they thought he was gay
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This is going back a while but I meant to discuss it. And I think seeing his pressuring of Sam reminded me.
Basically he said a while back how women think he's gay so he never gets laid. And he's bi not gay.
But sorry my stance on this is (risky post!) I know in this day and age it's all very good to be open about your sexuality and no one cares about that. But, I don't think you can expect a straight woman to be comfortable with it. Like as in assume they should be ok with it. I mean it may put some women off knowing you've been with a man. Not only this but there's also a HIV risk. So it's just their preference and you can't force them to be ok with it if they're not.
But as we saw through out BB he seems to have a personality that his way is right only. Like wise when he was almost having a go / pressuring Sam for not fancying him! (but that is a thread in itself).
Your not her type, she doesn't fancy you deal with it, get over it. She let you down in a nice way and is still friends with you- which is a positive.
Like wise for women that don't want to sleep with you because they thought you were gay.... Deal with it!
Basically he said a while back how women think he's gay so he never gets laid. And he's bi not gay.
But sorry my stance on this is (risky post!) I know in this day and age it's all very good to be open about your sexuality and no one cares about that. But, I don't think you can expect a straight woman to be comfortable with it. Like as in assume they should be ok with it. I mean it may put some women off knowing you've been with a man. Not only this but there's also a HIV risk. So it's just their preference and you can't force them to be ok with it if they're not.
But as we saw through out BB he seems to have a personality that his way is right only. Like wise when he was almost having a go / pressuring Sam for not fancying him! (but that is a thread in itself).
Your not her type, she doesn't fancy you deal with it, get over it. She let you down in a nice way and is still friends with you- which is a positive.
Like wise for women that don't want to sleep with you because they thought you were gay.... Deal with it!
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He's a gorgeous, handsome, personable guy and I'm sure he will not be short of female interest now that the programme has finished.
Lack of fashion sense doesn't mean that he won't find a female partner!
I do agree on the whole though, he is more likely to find an understanding partner who is also bisexual and understands what it involves.
I've watched MIC and one minute he's straight, then gay, then bisexual and anyone who is that uncertain of their sexual preferences isn't an attractive prospect.
His indecision probably deters females, not his actual preferences.
Oh no he has lovely hair, Ollie is very pretty infact far prettier than a lot of women so he will look very femimin, i do think he is gay but if he says he is bi-sexual than only he knows, one thing i dont think he does fancy Sam i can see magazine deals for them and nothing else IMO.
I think he is asexual
He is nearly 27, any normal guy of his age would have just tried out pretty much every single sexual pairing that they feel comfortable with by then. His constant sexual uncertainty just seems immature?
I'm certain that there are "Straight" guys in the mix in the Kensington & Chelsea circle that would have had at least a few gay experiences, the odds of Ollie not having tested the waters are pretty slim.
So he is bi, but has only ever slept with women.
And thats why Lee told him he has experimented too, to support Ollie, because Ollie was beating himself up about it.
I agree, I have good gaydar and I,m not often wrong and I dont care if he is or not, he,s a lovely guy with the most gorgeous eyes
ETA: He did say he's never slept with a man, and he has only had girlfriends, including a couple of quite long-term ones.
Actually Sam seemed a bit that way too, so they might be perfect partners, both with a low sex drive and more interested in other things, like how they look.
In his interview he kept sounding very much like Michael McIntyre (who really irritates me!)
I think it's more to do with being bi allows you to have more story lines!
I think he came to terms with it a long time ago and just following the advice of his agent.
I wonder how long it will be before we see a Ollie and Sam reality show...
Not necessarily. People can question their sexuality at any stage in life.
I bet his 'people' are already talking to her 'people'. I wondered if part of their caginess whenever they discussed next steps is because they need permission to date. One of the Made in Chelsea girls was very flustered on BBOTS after mistakenly suggesting there's no show crossbreeding. Sam's TOWIE contract may be a problem.
I'm Intersted to know.. Did you have un protected sex with him? And if so did you get him tested before? Sorry personal questions but it helps the topic!
I think overall what I'm saying is also HIV is , statistical fact, more prevalent in gay communities. Even yesterday I was watching a programme saying how the gay communities are using a new needle based drug which is spreading HIV.
So I don't think, if you are bisexual, to expect or assume that straight people should be ok with it just because you are.
I thought he sounded like Boris Johnson.
As for the question - send him round here I would be happy to see him right.
I think you are probably right
lol its the overaffected way he speaks i think