Valentines Day is Stupid ..

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  • ÆnimaÆnima Posts: 38,548
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    We don't celebrate it.

    Although it was when we conceived our baby a few years ago (we were "trying", it was a fertile time, nowt to do with it actually being Valentines Day. I had our baby on 14th November exactly 9 months later :o)

    We may watch a film or something but more because it's a Friday than it being 14th Feb.

    Do Londoners say nowt ? :p Sorry, I know that was nothing to do with what you posted :D
  • Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    I think it's lovely and I would partake if I had a partner.
  • Oliver_UstinovOliver_Ustinov Posts: 913
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    I think it's lovely and I would partake if I had a partner.
    I have no partner either. :cry:
  • ONeillDigSpyONeillDigSpy Posts: 435
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    bundle of nonsense, i can't explain how much nonsense it actually is
  • Joni MJoni M Posts: 70,225
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    I don't know anyone my age who celebrates it... although we almost went for a meal in Cartmel last year as there was a bargain menu.
  • Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    I have no partner either. :cry:
    Go get one if you want one.
  • ÆnimaÆnima Posts: 38,548
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    I think it's lovely and I would partake if I had a partner.

    Only because you get chocolate and flowers :p

    What do men get out of it? :confused:
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 348
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    I find the whole event very cheesy. It embarrasses me to be honest.
  • grahamzxygrahamzxy Posts: 11,920
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    It is a token day....like Mother's Day or Father's Day...a chosen specific day in the calendar, if people wish to commercialize it that is their choice.

    I would imagine most people just send/receive cards and for teenagers it is a chance to feel 'love' from somebody new....
  • Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    Ænima wrote: »
    Only because you get chocolate and flowers :p

    What do men get out of it? :confused:

    Chocolate and flowers don't excite me.
    Do men not get given presents then?
  • grahamzxygrahamzxy Posts: 11,920
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    Ænima wrote: »
    Only because you get chocolate and flowers :p

    What do men get out of it? :confused:

    Aftershave, chocolates, wine, a watch, another gift??
  • Oliver_UstinovOliver_Ustinov Posts: 913
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    Go get one if you want one.
    If only, if only.... :(
  • ÆnimaÆnima Posts: 38,548
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    Chocolate and flowers don't excite me.
    Do men not get given presents then?

    Not really, not me anyway, just a card last year.

    I don't think it's romantic either, it's too contrived.

    A random meal out and cosy night in with a film, is more romantic to me.
  • ÆnimaÆnima Posts: 38,548
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    grahamzxy wrote: »
    Aftershave, chocolates, wine, a watch, another gift??

    Seriously? :D I've never known any guy get all that just for valentines day :p
  • The WizardThe Wizard Posts: 11,071
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    It's just a rip off. Why do you need to spend money one day a year to show someone that you love them? Surely it should be an all year round thing.
  • Oliver_UstinovOliver_Ustinov Posts: 913
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    The Wizard wrote: »
    It's just a rip off. Why do you need to spend money one day a year to show someone that you love them? Surely it should be an all year round thing.
    I don't need this pressure on. :(
  • fefsterfefster Posts: 7,388
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    I get one every year for my lovely 8 year old son.
    My husband gets nowt and I don't want anything from him. Valentines day is for new lovers. There are far more important things to celebrate later on in a relationship.
  • Oliver_UstinovOliver_Ustinov Posts: 913
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    fefster wrote: »
    I get one every year for my lovely 8 year old son.
    My husband gets nowt and I don't want anything from him. Valentines day is for new lovers. There are far more important things to celebrate later on in a relationship.
    Such as a wedding, for instance. :cool:
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 104
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    maurice45 wrote: »
    Valentine's Day happens to be my brother's birthday.


    Why are you sharing this? Unless.....




    Incest?
  • Phoenix LazarusPhoenix Lazarus Posts: 17,306
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    Does anyone still send cards captioned 'Love is...' with those two cartoon child characters from the 70s and 80s, a boy and a girl, both clearly pre-pubescent, and patently wearing nothing? I strongly doubt it, given how dodgy that would seem now.
  • TelevisionUserTelevisionUser Posts: 41,413
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    Valentines Day is Stupid...

    ...and, these days, it's rather too commercialised as well. :o

    I'm not sure l like the overt commercialisation as it comes across as too intense and tacky.
  • IofielIofiel Posts: 1,144
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    I never got any valentines cards ... but I never needed it ... because I am neither boy nor girl ... hehe ...
  • JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    I've never had a card - ever. Strangely proud of that .. heh :)
  • 1fab1fab Posts: 20,052
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    Nowt worse than commercialised romance. Tacky cards and single red roses - bleurgh! And I wouldn't be caught dead having a "romantic meal" with my husband on 14 Feb - too cringeworthy for words!
  • Oliver_UstinovOliver_Ustinov Posts: 913
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    I've never had a card - ever. Strangely proud of that .. heh :)
    Why exactly are you proud of that? :confused:
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