that first text to a girl
skinjim123
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Hi guys was just wondering if you can give me some good advice regarding a girl I met the other night. Not been on the dating scenen for months so literally have no clue what to do. Anyway I met this girl at a club about two days ago. We hit it off instantly, you know the usual. Anyway we were chattin and seemed to have a lot in common. She offered her number and gave it me telling me she wanted to see me again as she thought we got on so well together. after I sobered up the next day I text her I short message just sayin how nice the night was and if she had a good day.she didnt text back. Anyway I'm a bit gutted she hasn't and don't know what to do next I really wanna see her agen and from what she sed to me it seemed like a sure thing. What should I do?
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Phone her
Edit. I çan see what you mean but won't it come across stalkerish?
Just phone her and you will get an answer either way. If she's really interested then she will welcome the call and if not at least you will know not to waste any further time on her.
However, if you dont hear from her after the second text, that's when you should call it a day. If she likes you she'll respond.
If it's any consolation, us women go through tortures about when to reply to a text.
I put my name at the end of the text does that make a difference. Jeez I am terrible at this sort of thing.
thats not true though mate and i know plenty of people who can vouch for that. in 3 days she wouldntve even know who i was lol
so you wouldn't advise ringing her then? what exactly should i say in another text i really don't wana mess up lol
So it's actually your second text to the girl? If she didn't respond to your first one then there's little chance she's going to respond to a second. Forget about it and move on.
yes i did say i had already txt her but if you had read the rest of my post you would have noticed she seemed interested and gave me her number asking me to txt. i did not ask for it.
Yes I did read the rest of your post. I read the bit which said, "She didn't text back" which to me suggests she's changed her mind. You might get away with another text or a phone-call but if she responds to neither then leave her alone unless you bump into her on another night out then you might be able to ask her face to face if you could call her or go out with her.
talk.
mind you, i'm an old geezer. out of touch.
If she makes excuses or says no, say something like 'oh well, it was nice to meet you anyway', then if she likes you she'll probably suggest meeting up another time. If not just say bye and leave it. That's what I would do anyway.
You need to phone not text!
I'm only suggesting that because she gave him her number, which has to be taken as some expression of interest. Otherwise I'd have said to give it up as a bad job.
Short message, only a few words, then give it up. If she doesn't reply after that, she's changed her mind. Sorry.
I am an oldie but I'd say keep it light how ever you contact her, women (girls) like a man who can make them laugh but don't be too slapstick they hate that.
i'm 23 would you believe haha. i am just useless with the whole should i txt should i not. just to make it clear to everyone i have yet to txt her or contact her again i only txt her the once. i would prefer to call her but i'm unsure.