Chris's speech to Ashleigh in the house was a bit creepy
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Chris's speech to Ashleigh in the house was a bit creepy
''Ashleigh I love everything about you I think you are the best and I really really do want to share my life with you and you know every big experience in your life I want to be apart of if I can even from a distance'' < Now that people is creepy. Ashleigh's bf must of been cringing at that moment and thinking to himself you wont be apart of her life
''Ashleigh I love everything about you I think you are the best and I really really do want to share my life with you and you know every big experience in your life I want to be apart of if I can even from a distance'' < Now that people is creepy. Ashleigh's bf must of been cringing at that moment and thinking to himself you wont be apart of her life
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Get Chris out!!!!
Oh.....
In the meanwhile, Ashleigh was with her boyfriend ... any thought of her 'in-house' relationships already in the past
Chris might find it hard accepting that he won't matter at all to Ashleigh now that she's back in the real world
Just my opinion, of course, but I think Chris' adoration of Ashleigh will, indeed, be 'from a distance' from now on
They all went a little over the top and got a bit emotional on their speeches, I don't get why Chris is singled out. I think most of them made really good speeches.
Im sure it was heartfelt and honest but saying he wanted to share his life with her is misjudging what its appropriate to say.
nothing was lost in that case, he said those words, we understand what he meant but its just a dreadful choice of words in the circumstances.
She will make her choice and it wont be to stay in touch with him
Maybe she won't see him, maybe she will. It's the same with all friendships made in the house.
However, Ashleigh is not a naive girl, and not easily swayed into anything. She viewed Chris as her friend, the person closest to her in the house and she never implied that she ever felt uncomfortable around him. She did however say how uncomfortable some of Winston's comments made her feel. Chris was nothing but a gentleman. Maybe it's because I'm getting older, but it really stuns me that being respectful and complimentary about a woman can be seen as 'creepier' than someone telling a girl to 'Get her t*ts out'.
As Ella Dee said, Big Brother just put this part of the speech into the HL because they knew it would support the image of him they tried to portray weeks ago. In the full speech he's extremely complimentary about all the finalists, but obviously especially Christopher and Ashleigh. He implies to both of them that he wants them as part of his life. He tells Christopher "he'll forever be at his door". It's just an expression, the same as 'share my life'.
Sure, Chris could have phrased that better, but really, it's a bit lame to judge him so harshly by it. He is a lovey. That's what lovies do.
Compared to Helen who at times wanted to smash Ashleigh's face in etc... And all the vile language she used, I really don't see anything that was worth judging so harshly.
In the moment Chris said he wanted to share Ashleigh's life, it was heartfelt as pointed out in above post.
He is such a nice guy. Leave him alone.
Phrased it better?
"I want to spend my life with you. I don't want to miss a moment".
I'm not sure how else that could be phrased.
I don't see it as a big deal at all.
Ok. He could have said, 'I always want you to be your friend'
Friends share their lives with each other. Chris is a lovie, he is honest and compassionate and warm person. I'm not surprised that expressed his admiration for Ashleigh in that way... It didn't do him any favours and I suspect he wouldn't care much either what people think of it.
He admires Ashleigh very much as her fans do. She is a very remarkable young woman. But cold as they come.
Honestly?
Ashleigh said she did not know what she would have done without him and viewed him as a friend for life - just what he said but phrased differently.
Helen won - good luck to her, though she was not my choice.
They are all out of the house and it's possibly having having the biggest clean up ever.
Shall we leave all the 'creepy' and 'vile' etc adjectives behind and move on now?
Just my opinion.
move on to what ?
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The next offering from CH5?
CBB - next week?
Reading War & Peace......
Just give ourselves a break before choosing who is next in line for the vitriol.
CBB that starts on Monday