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Has disappointment with one sex pushed you towards the other?

WanderinWonderWanderinWonder Posts: 3,719
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I've certainly experienced a shift over time, particularly after some disappointing experiences with one sex. So now I feel more drawn to the other, at least on a carnal level.

Has this ever happened to you?
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    DangermooseDangermoose Posts: 67,943
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    No ...
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    Fairyprincess0Fairyprincess0 Posts: 30,085
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    No. I tried a 'normal' relationship....

    It did not work.
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    Old EndeavourOld Endeavour Posts: 9,852
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    Unless someone is bisexual then that simply can't happen.

    And how does one link disappointment with a few people of one sex lead to thinking that all people of that sex are no good?

    So it fails on all counts.
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    MidnightFalconMidnightFalcon Posts: 15,016
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    No I was born this way.
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    floogfloog Posts: 981
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    No amount of disappointment in men could make me contemplate a vagina.
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    planetsplanets Posts: 47,784
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    Dangermoose wrote: »
    No ...

    that affair with the killer whale didn't go too well though....did it put you off killer whales?
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    Sorcha_27Sorcha_27 Posts: 138,853
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    Nope. I'll always love men despite the bad eggs
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    DangermooseDangermoose Posts: 67,943
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    planets wrote: »
    that affair with the killer whale didn't go too well though....did it put you off killer whales?

    Yes but not enough to push me towards a dolphin ....
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    planetsplanets Posts: 47,784
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    Dangermoose wrote: »
    Yes but not enough to push me towards a dolphin ....

    fairy nuff
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    TeeGeeTeeGee Posts: 5,772
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    I could never stay away from fit blondes however many times I got rejected....:)
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    PoppySeedPoppySeed Posts: 2,483
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    No, I'm an eternal optimist and as someone once said 'it don't mean a thing if it ain't got that schwing'. Men all the way for me.
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    tghe-retfordtghe-retford Posts: 26,449
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    No, unless you are bisexual.

    What can happen is that a person can withdraw from sex and relationships, and then withdraw into reclusion. It's happening in western countries and particularly so in Japan for a number of reasons.
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    Fraudrey CFraudrey C Posts: 292
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    floog wrote: »
    No amount of disappointment in men could make me contemplate a vagina.

    I'm with you bro lol
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    Frankie_LittleFrankie_Little Posts: 9,271
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    I'm not bisexual, so no, men for me, short ones, tall ones, fat ones, thin ones - I'm seldom disappointed. It helps having very low standards of course ;)
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    An ThropologistAn Thropologist Posts: 39,854
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    planets wrote: »
    that affair with the killer whale didn't go too well though....did it put you off killer whales?
    Dangermoose wrote: »
    Yes but not enough to push me towards a dolphin ....

    Perhaps you should try bivalves. ;-) With cockles, mussels, winkles and so forth what more could you want? :D
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    anne_666anne_666 Posts: 72,891
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    WanderinWonder wrote: »
    I've certainly experienced a shift over time, particularly after some disappointing experiences with one sex. So now I feel more drawn to the other, at least on a carnal level.

    Has this ever happened to you?

    No, you're bi-sexual.
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    DangermooseDangermoose Posts: 67,943
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    An Thropologist wrote: »
    Perhaps you should try bivalves. ;-) With cockles, mussels, winkles and so forth what more could you want? :D

    Oh there's been a few cockles and winkles. Not so many mussels ......
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    Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    No. Men can be real tossers at times - my own man is sometimes the biggest tosser of them all (he's just as complimentary about me :D) but there's not a chance I'd ever trade him in for a woman!
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    SJ_MentalSJ_Mental Posts: 16,138
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    Not that I have noticed.
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    FrankieFixerFrankieFixer Posts: 11,530
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    No :rolleyes:
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    WanderinWonderWanderinWonder Posts: 3,719
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    Old Endeavour wrote: »
    Unless someone is bisexual then that simply can't happen.

    And how does one link disappointment with a few people of one sex lead to thinking that all people of that sex are no good?

    So it fails on all counts.

    Not necessarily, enough bad experiences with one sex can make the other seem much more appealing from then on.

    Admittedly, one would need at least a degree of fluidity in their sexuality for that to happen.
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    My usernamesMy usernames Posts: 1,002
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    WanderinWonder wrote: »
    I've certainly experienced a shift over time, particularly after some disappointing experiences with one sex. So now I feel more drawn to the other, at least on a carnal level.

    Has this ever happened to you?

    No.
    What a ridiculous thing to ask. Human sexuality doesn't work like that.
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    mystery23mystery23 Posts: 1,110
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    No I like dick too much
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    WanderinWonderWanderinWonder Posts: 3,719
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    My usernames wrote: »
    No.
    What a ridiculous thing to ask. Human sexuality doesn't work like that.

    How do you know? Do you have special magic powers that allow you to peep inside all 7,000,000,000+ humans' heads and know all their sexualities inside out?

    And how do you explain all the people who've experienced shifts in their desires over time, Dr. Sex Expert?
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    WanderinWonderWanderinWonder Posts: 3,719
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    mystery23 wrote: »
    No I like dick too much

    I get what you mean, but it's all great. A hot body is a hot body. :D
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