Suggestions for songs to be played at a funeral.

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Hi everyone,

As some of you know in the Crisis Support thread know already, my Grandma passed away a few days ago, and i wanted to have a couple of songs which i can suggest to my parents about having played at her funeral. So i was just asking for suggestions really!

The ones i'm concidering at the moment are:

Eva Cassidy - Fields of Gold
Paolo Nutini - Autumn
Israel (Hawaiian guy cant recall his surname!) - Somewhere over the rainbow



Thanks for any further suggestions :)
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  • kayceekaycee Posts: 12,046
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    Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to be insensitive, and not for one minute suggesting this is what you should use......

    But a friend of mine went to the funeral of someone who had a great sense of humour. He didn't want his funeral to be a solemn affair so picked his own songs before he died: one of them was One Foot In the Grave................... Irreverent, no doubt, but everyone left the church with a smile
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,841
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    Hey Flaxseed, feeling any better? ((hug))
    My first thought was Faith Hill - There You'll Be http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmxILVVoRGA since you seemed to be very close to her.

    Fields of Gold is beautiful though. Maybe You Raise Me Up - Josh Groban?


    Kaycee thats brilliant. I know a few people who want to be cremated to Disco Inferno!

    Edit: Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler is another popular one. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=El-C3w4CYqo
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,848
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    you should use her favourite song
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,207
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    "Beyond the door,
    There's peace I'm sure,
    And I know there'll be no more
    Tears in heaven."

    Tears In Heaven by Eric Clapton
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,009
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    "Always look on the bright side of life" is what I want played at my funeral.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 777
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    These are songs I have heard at funerals, that seem to be really touching. Also, Eva Cassidy does a fantastic version of "Over the Rainbow."


    1) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9ETZGzE83U

    2) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSz16ngdsG0

    3) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CboxrdDI7L8
  • SystemSystem Posts: 2,096,970
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    I was at a funeral last year, young lad, my cousin. They played a few songs, one was Wind Beneath My Wings, lovely it was.

    For some reason I want Waterloo Sunset and We Are The Champions when I pass as I think they're my two favourite songs.

    Silly question but if your Grandmother was quite old and was around during the war how about We'll Meet Again, has an appropriate sentiment and might mean something to someone o her age.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 8,373
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    BlurAlly wrote: »
    "Beyond the door,
    There's peace I'm sure,
    And I know there'll be no more
    Tears in heaven."

    Tears In Heaven by Eric Clapton

    Those lyrics are my MSN name at the moment!

    Such beautiful words. :)
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,994
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    I want Jeff Buckley to be played at mine, Im not sure which songs, last goodbye seems apt. he has some very beautiful songs.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,207
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    Flaxseed wrote: »
    Those lyrics are my MSN name at the moment!

    Such beautiful words. :)

    Very. :)

    Sorry to hear about your Grandma Flaxseed. x
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 8,373
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    BlurAlly wrote: »
    Very. :)

    Sorry to hear about your Grandma Flaxseed. x

    thanks :) lots of people esp on ds have been really nice, i dont think you appreciate the kindness of strangers really!
  • 83ray183ray1 Posts: 2,963
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    Couple here.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TjgYsHt71XE

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LF8unwxhNho

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbXw_FRldUU

    A lovely country ballad can't go wrong, and the other two are uplifting.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0
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    ((((((((((Flaxseed)))))))))))) I'm sorry about your Grandma, I can't imagine what you're feeling- I dread the day my Grandparents die

    Anyway

    I think Tears in Heaven and Fields of Gold are both fab,for a funeral, and Adele Hometown Glory maybe? Best Wishes and all the support you need

    Lolly-licker =]
  • SystemSystem Posts: 2,096,970
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    I want Shine On you Crazy Diamond played at mind, but I feel it might be a but too long...
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 13,807
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    sirpipe wrote: »
    "Always look on the bright side of life" is what I want played at my funeral.

    Snap. In fact my wife has already bought it, which is slightly worrying. :o
  • KarmaChameleonKarmaChameleon Posts: 1,006
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    I've always liked the thought of Asleep by The Smiths played at a funeral. But I think it would make me cry buckets at the funeral of someone I loved. :cry:

    Dont feel bad for me
    I want you to know
    Deep in the cell of my heart
    I really want to go

    There is another world
    There is a better world
    Well, there must be
  • threecheesesthreecheeses Posts: 23,936
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    I would like "Fly me to the moon" Nat King Cole version.:)

    My grandad, earlier this year, had the Hovis advert music (sorry can't think of the name), he was a Newcastle lad.:)

    Very sadly a friend of mine lost her son at a very young age and they had S Club7 "Reach for the stars" which was really nice, stopped the tears for a moment:(

    I think Tears in Heaven is lovely but is a sad enough song as it is.:(
  • cosmocosmo Posts: 26,840
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    Sorry to hear of your loss Flaxseed.

    How old was your Grandmother? Perhaps you could pick a song from her era.
  • mpmc17mpmc17 Posts: 2,434
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    Sorry.

    How about

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRP4B0Or_k8 (The calling - Wherever you will go)
  • ValLambertValLambert Posts: 11,688
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    Wonderful World, Nat King Cole. I'm sorry for your loss flaxseed. You sound as if you loved her very much. Celebrate her life and how she made the world a special place.
  • HypnodiscHypnodisc Posts: 22,728
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    The second poster got it right I think...

    I'm having 'Who let the dogs out' at my funeral - and also a requirement people come wearing colourful casual clothes.

    I think it would be kinda more fun :)
  • pabs1904pabs1904 Posts: 4,036
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    Diana Ross - I'm Coming Out.

    Adding a different flavour to the funeral:)
  • steveOooosteveOooo Posts: 5,002
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    i think u2 song 'sometimes u cant make it on your own' a song about bonos late father
  • PlanetPlanet Posts: 1,972
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    kaycee wrote: »
    Please don't take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to be insensitive, and not for one minute suggesting this is what you should use......

    But a friend of mine went to the funeral of someone who had a great sense of humour. He didn't want his funeral to be a solemn affair so picked his own songs before he died: one of them was One Foot In the Grave................... Irreverent, no doubt, but everyone left the church with a smile

    Always adds a personal touch, rather than a song that people think 'should' be played just because it's a funeral.

    I know which song I'd like played, and it definitely isn't Enya or James Blunt.
  • InspirationInspiration Posts: 62,702
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    Les Willis wrote: »
    I want Shine On you Crazy Diamond played at mind, but I feel it might be a but too long...

    Eclipse for me. :)
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