Have you ever had or do you ever have a crush on someone you hardly know?
November_Rain
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This is happening to me right now. There's this girl in work I usually see on my break, she always says hello but I don't actually know her. I only know her on a first name basis. I believe she is in a relationship and has a kid so I don't have an ice cube's chance in hell, and even if I did I sincerely doubt I'd have it in me to ask her out.
Doesn't stop me from daydreaming about her or getting butterflies in my stomach whenever I see her though. It might sound weird but I know I'm not the only person to have experienced this.
It's not the first time, there have been others in the past but they've faded with time as I'm sure this one will. But right now I'm mesmerised by this girl.
Anyone have similar experiences they'd like to share?
Doesn't stop me from daydreaming about her or getting butterflies in my stomach whenever I see her though. It might sound weird but I know I'm not the only person to have experienced this.
It's not the first time, there have been others in the past but they've faded with time as I'm sure this one will. But right now I'm mesmerised by this girl.
Anyone have similar experiences they'd like to share?
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I mostly just feel empty, like a hollow shell made from blackness and melancholy.
Alot of people are feeling pretty bleak right now,this country is a dismal state of affairs at the moment. x
As for on topic I get crushes on famous men all the time but never people in everyday life tbh.
No it's not that at all. I'm just grumpy and miserable all the time. Not at work though. I have to be happy there to keep all my minions motivated.
Well I'm sure they appreciate your efforts
I hope they do. But I have my doubts.
I'm much the same. I wouldn't go there even if there was a chance because I know how I would feel if I was on the receiving end of an unfaithful partner, and I would probably be given a beating anyway. Still a guy can dream.
Your best is all you can do Mr Bear
Sad thing is that I saw him many years later and wondered if I must have had something dreadfully wrong with my eyesight.
I'm sure we've all been there.
The best crushes are the ones for people you don't know.
Once you know them and get to see all their annoying foibles and get to know their stupid opinions and their 'normality' the mystique is gone.
It all seems so surreal to me now. But I'll never forget him.
You know, the "I saw youuuurrr faceeeee, in a crowded traaaaaiiin… and I don't know what to do, cause I'll never be with yoooouu" kind of thing.
That being said, it was probably less of a crush and more of a PHWOAR U SO FIT instance.
No. I might see them and think they're a bit of alright, but then I would forget them as I know there would be no possibility whatever of something coming from it - and even if I did by some remote chance manage to engineer something, it might cause a great deal of hurt to others and damage to my reputation, if she was already in a relationship with a kid of her own.
...and you also discover they've got bad breath, BO, hairy arms and a highly unpleasant gastric condition....
Bang, and the magic is gone, as Barry Scott might say ^_^
Doesn't mean I don't occasionally sneak a look though. Alas he's taken to talking to WAG types who are about 15 years younger than him these days. I never realised he was that shallow, or at least he wasn't to me.
Oh well. Onwards & upwards & all that.....
It's possible for any of us to have a crush, adults or not.
I have a bit of a crush on a couple of FMs, despite never meeting or even seeing them. It's just how they come over, I suppose. I also have a crush on a couple of people I follow on twitter, nobody famous.
be careful guys don;t let the same thing happen to you
Who said it has to make sense? ;-) If the attraction's there for you, it's there.....