How to put someone in their place?
I need to find ways to do it as there is a few people at my work who are bugging me. I'm a big guy who just wants to get on with my job but my supervisor keeps trying to annoy me pocking me and patting me on the back patronising me also he randomly laughs.
A few times a ignored this behavior and mocked him when I had the chance and then I just got on with the job and started being really polite and it worked for awhile but then he seemed to start trying to piss me off again and even impeding my work.
A few times a ignored this behavior and mocked him when I had the chance and then I just got on with the job and started being really polite and it worked for awhile but then he seemed to start trying to piss me off again and even impeding my work.
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Also start training in either Ju Jitsui, Krav Maga or boxing. Your age and size are irrelevant. Either pursuit will help you lose weight, gain strength and confidence and will help you not to be a victim.
and a pair of knuckle dusters will help back up your threat.
Store it all up then when he gets close, turning your body if necessary - let out the biggest fart you've got. Then act like it was him.
Bugger!
Clearly someone did that to me and I never bluddy noticed - and I just bought new clubs!!
So that was you sending all those golf balls through my bathroom window. Grrr!
I would say not loudly, but assertively " I hope you are not going to be moaning and complaining that this work is not done or unsatisfactory, when you are preventing me concentrating and getting it done by poking me etc" If he doesn't get the message escalate it to your HR dept, and say you want to discuss your working environment
It's bullying really, but he's acting the clown to mask over it.
Hope you get it sorted, Good Luck xx
Keep your bra on and it won't happen!
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Next time he does something you don't like, tell him you would like a private word with him, and tell him you didn't appreciate what he just did and why, and let him know you are asking him not to do it again. Make quick note and if he keeps on you can go to HR or management. If he is prodding and making personal contact tell him you don't find it funny.
These clowns are a pain in the backside sometimes.
Problem is some people don't mind touching - supervisors should know better though.
Best answer of the lot imo.
We had a senior social services manager who liked to sneak up to people (mostly junior females) at the photocopier and run a finger down their back as a joke. He did it to me a couple of times and I asked for a private word in his office. I told him he was maybe unaware he was causing offence but I didn't like it and please stop.. Next thing he was 'in conference' with my line manager - seemingly frightened of getting a harrassment accusation. But in fact I hadn't told anyone. Word got round however and half the women in the office came up to say 'thank you' and an Assistant Director said 'well done'. Yet I hadn't made an official complaint - just dealt with it like an adult.
You've started umpteen threads in the past alleging bullying/victimisation/improper behavior in a variety of jobs and situations.
The only common factor is you ...
Why do you consider that would wind people up?