Why because he called her a maggot? Sorry but i dont hold name calling against anyone, we all do it sometime in our life, i have.You just did calling him a tosser.......:D
It's an extremely disrespectful thing to say, but the nasty way he said it (in front of everyone) made it even worse.
Where was all this 'outrage' when Matthew directly called Marlon fat yesterday?
I already answered this at post 41 when you said this earlier. "You're being disingenuous if you're saying these are the same. Matt commented that Marlon looked fat on the screen that they were just getting to look at. Ash took the piss nastily."
Where was all this 'outrage' when Matthew directly called Marlon fat yesterday?
Marlon is not a forum favourite,Mathew isint a forum hated housemate.
In my books its double standards but the reality is if you read posts by many of those objecting they have themselves called housemates names because they dont like them yet somehow it is only nasty when someone the forum dislikes says it.
I already answered this at post 41 when you said this earlier. "You're being disingenuous if you're saying these are the same. Matt commented that Marlon looked fat on the screen that they were just getting to look at. Ash took the piss nastily."
No Ash didn't, to anyone who actually has a sense of humour it was clearly a joke, it's shocking that I even have to explain that. Matthew said Marlon looked fat more than once then he and Toya started laughing about it - clearly much more bitchy and nasty than what Ash said
She's pretty hefty. I'd say a size 20 or 22, which is morbidly obese.
So?? Even if she is (which she isn't), it's still not acceptable to make jokes about someone based on their appearance. Who are you to make comments about her weight?
To all the idoits saying "its only banter" no its not.. when has ash ever said anything nice to jale?.. still bullying if u ask me. He needs to go.. hes not worth watching. . Id rather watch ashleigh who doesn't say shit than watch that ignorant fool
Banter is the new word for piss taking, people just insult people at will and if anyone takes offence at whats been said to them they are told its only BANTER, and are then expected to just take it >:(.....
That's how I saw it. No malice it's just the way he speaks.
And therein lies the problem, he is a disgusting mysogynist and he has portrayed this several times in 'the way he speaks'. If he were my son I would be ashamed.
And therein lies the problem, he is a disgusting mysogynist and he has portrayed this several times in 'the way he speaks'. If he were my son I would be ashamed.
1. I know the definition of the word banter.. so erm ta!
& 2. Theres one thing having banter with someone who's use to it by you. . Not someone you have previously targeted & bullied.. therfore It clearly wasnt a jokey insult & if it was dont u think ash would have said something along the lines of "only ****ing with ya" to assure her and those around him he wasnt being nasty?
Banter is the new word for piss taking, people just insult people at will and if anyone takes offence at whats been said to them they are told its only BANTER, and are then expected to just take it >:(.....
"Banter" (how I hate that word) is mickeytaking and jokes between mates, pals, people who know each other well. Ash and Jale aren't mates or pals and they don't get on well so how can it be banter?
Matthew and Toya were both out of order with the "fat" remarks about Marlon last night, and I don't see any threads saying how it was "for the lolz" or declaring it "banter". So how is double standards?
No Ash didn't, to anyone who actually has a sense of humour it was clearly a joke, it's shocking that I even have to explain that. Matthew said Marlon looked fat more than once then he and Toya started laughing about it - clearly much more bitchy and nasty than what Ash said
It's shocking that you don't recognise snidey, behind the back digs. I'm not sticking up for Matt and Toya by the way but that simply wasn't snide it was shock and embarrassment which is why they laughed I believe. I appreciate you and Ash thought that was a funny remark but then some people still find jokes about the 'fat' mother in law funny
"Banter" (how I hate that word) is mickeytaking and jokes between mates, pals, people who know each other well. Ash and Jale aren't mates or pals and they don't get on well so how can it be banter?
Matthew and Toya were both out of order with the "fat" remarks about Marlon last night, and I don't see any threads saying how it was "for the lolz" or declaring it "banter". So how is double standards?
He said it because she did a cannon ball where the girls went in so daintily.
He would have said the same thing if it was Winston. She's not even that big. If she worked out a tiny bit she'd be fine.
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It's an extremely disrespectful thing to say, but the nasty way he said it (in front of everyone) made it even worse.
I already answered this at post 41 when you said this earlier. "You're being disingenuous if you're saying these are the same. Matt commented that Marlon looked fat on the screen that they were just getting to look at. Ash took the piss nastily."
In my books its double standards but the reality is if you read posts by many of those objecting they have themselves called housemates names because they dont like them yet somehow it is only nasty when someone the forum dislikes says it.
I didnt think it disrespectful,nor said it nasty. I dont think they would have laughed if he said it nasty.
No Ash didn't, to anyone who actually has a sense of humour it was clearly a joke, it's shocking that I even have to explain that. Matthew said Marlon looked fat more than once then he and Toya started laughing about it - clearly much more bitchy and nasty than what Ash said
So?? Even if she is (which she isn't), it's still not acceptable to make jokes about someone based on their appearance. Who are you to make comments about her weight?
I was referring to the 'f'ng maggot' insult.
It would sound like that to you. It's a different view, one you disagree with.
Banter is the new word for piss taking, people just insult people at will and if anyone takes offence at whats been said to them they are told its only BANTER, and are then expected to just take it >:(.....
And therein lies the problem, he is a disgusting mysogynist and he has portrayed this several times in 'the way he speaks'. If he were my son I would be ashamed.
Was Marlon bullying Jale the first week? No he wasnt.
What on earth makes you think that.
I can certainly imagine if the shoe was on the other foot that Ash would be butthurt thinking 'Who the f* does she think she is?'
So now hes a "mysogynist"...unbelievable
Cos thats the way i saw it....banter nothing else.
& 2. Theres one thing having banter with someone who's use to it by you. . Not someone you have previously targeted & bullied.. therfore It clearly wasnt a jokey insult & if it was dont u think ash would have said something along the lines of "only ****ing with ya" to assure her and those around him he wasnt being nasty?
Matthew and Toya were both out of order with the "fat" remarks about Marlon last night, and I don't see any threads saying how it was "for the lolz" or declaring it "banter". So how is double standards?
I do hope Ash leaves on Friday.
It's shocking that you don't recognise snidey, behind the back digs. I'm not sticking up for Matt and Toya by the way but that simply wasn't snide it was shock and embarrassment which is why they laughed I believe. I appreciate you and Ash thought that was a funny remark but then some people still find jokes about the 'fat' mother in law funny
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Maybe you should watch BB more closely.;-)
He would have said the same thing if it was Winston. She's not even that big. If she worked out a tiny bit she'd be fine.