Have you ever paid for sex?

mizhogmizhog Posts: 970
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I havent ever but am considering it as I think it could be fun. I am a good looking guy who doesnt need to pay for sex but on rentboy there are some gay porn stars who I know from their movies are available to hire and sleeping with your porn crush would be amazing. I think it would be a hot fantasy as a one off. Ive emailed them and replied and they seem really nice. Has anyone else done this?
I know the threat of viruses is out there but its the same with anyone and if theyre porn stars theyre likely to be in good health. lol cant believe im asking this on a forum :p
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  • Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    No I haven't and never would.
  • PictoPicto Posts: 24,270
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    I am married so yes, i pay every day.
  • rbdcayrbdcay Posts: 12,041
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    OP go for it. What the hell is the harm. You get something for it they get something for it. Hopefully it will be a great time.

    I have never paid for it but I can see there may come a day when one might and who knows I might bow to that but just haven't made my mind up.
  • BunionsBunions Posts: 15,016
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    I haven't but I've got no problem whatsoever with anyone who does.

    Go for it OP - but play safe though ;)
  • CravenHavenCravenHaven Posts: 13,953
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    I'm divorced so yes, i pay every day
  • MidnightFalconMidnightFalcon Posts: 15,016
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    One way or another everyone pays.
    Picto wrote: »
    I am married so yes, i pay every day.

    Innit.
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    Was there not a big thing recently in america I think where alot of porn stars contracted hiv? Plus if they are meeting fans for unprotected sex then the risk is very high of getting something
  • vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    Was there not a big thing recently in america I think where alot of porn stars contracted hiv? Plus if they are meeting fans for unprotected sex then the risk is very high of getting something

    I'm guessing they don't do escort work without barrier contraception.
  • Deb ArkleDeb Arkle Posts: 12,584
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    Judging by your EBay threads, OP - wouldn't you be planning to use the prostitute's services and then steal the money back from them?
  • vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Deb Arkle wrote: »
    Judging by your EBay threads, OP - wouldn't you be planning to use the prostitute's services and then steal the money back from them?

    A dick dispute. The possibilities are endless.
  • grumpyscotgrumpyscot Posts: 11,354
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    Picto wrote: »
    I am married so yes, i pay every day.

    And me too! 43 years of paying, in fact!
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    vosne wrote: »
    I'm guessing they don't do escort work without barrier contraception.

    You never know. Wztched a programme where if the price was right no protection was used
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    You can still get things like warts and pubic lice even when wearing protection
  • vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    You never know. Wztched a programme where if the price was right no protection was used

    Really? I find that surprising considering the amount of testing that is done in their day jobs, so to speak.
  • vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    You can still get things like warts and pubic lice even when wearing protection

    Same goes for any bugger then dunnit.
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    vosne wrote: »
    Really? I find that surprising considering the amount of testing that is done in their day jobs, so to speak.

    Like I said previously many have come down with hiv. Was a big thing in america
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    vosne wrote: »
    Same goes for any bugger then dunnit.

    The op said there was less chance of getting anything as they were porn stars. I was pointing out that wasnt true
  • vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    Like I said previously many have come down with hiv. Was a big thing in america

    I don't think "many" is accurate is it? I thought it was traced to other performers - that's where these things tend to occur from what I know. Which ain't a lot tbf.
  • sarahj1986sarahj1986 Posts: 11,305
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    No I haven't however for my birthday my boyfriend is buying me a lap dance with the girl of my choice in a lap dancing club ;-)
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    vosne wrote: »
    I don't think "many" is accurate is it? I thought it was traced to other performers - that's where these things tend to occur from what I know. Which ain't a lot tbf.

    From what I watched there was alot of them. The rest were scared incase they caught it so the porn industry was at a stamd still for a while
  • vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    The op said there was less chance of getting anything as they were porn stars. I was pointing out that wasnt true

    Well, I suppose you're balancing out: They are likely to have more sexual partners - higher risk. They are likely to get tested a lot (which unfortunately many normal folk don't) - decreased risk. I'm sure you could construct a complex mathematical formula :D
  • Nat28Nat28 Posts: 2,949
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    sarahj1986 wrote: »
    No I haven't however for my birthday my boyfriend is buying me a lap dance with the girl of my choice in a lap dancing club ;-)

    I take it your bisexual? Cos if my other half gave me thst as a birthdsy pressie I would not me impressed lol.
  • rbdcayrbdcay Posts: 12,041
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    Was there not a big thing recently in america I think where alot of porn stars contracted hiv? Plus if they are meeting fans for unprotected sex then the risk is very high of getting something

    A lot of those that caused that scandal were may I point out straight performers. That is not to say that there are not a couple of gay performers, but most of them use condoms as a rule but then of course there is bareback porn and all that. But to my point most of the performers that tested for HIV at the time of the scandal were straight performers.
  • sarahj1986sarahj1986 Posts: 11,305
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    Nat28 wrote: »
    I take it your bisexual? Cos if my other half gave me thst as a birthdsy pressie I would not me impressed lol.

    yes I am. Its not a conventional birthday present granted but Im not a conventional girl :D
  • GneissGneiss Posts: 14,555
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    I had an affair with someone who earned their living that way, but paid no...

    If I were unattached I'd certainly have no issue with it, especially at my age. I think I'm pretty much the target market for the more upmarket ladies.
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