Sad pregnancy news

Shadow27Shadow27 Posts: 4,181
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Hello, I am sorry in advance for hijacking what isn't really an advice thread but I hope the mods understand why.

I've met some wonderful people on here and wanted to let you know that we had our first 7 week scan today after an ICSI cycle but sadly no heartbeat was found so we haven't made it.

i didn't know how best to say on here and didn't want to bring the baby bomb thread down and hope you understand that I might not reply much if at all on here, we are devastated and trying to pull ourselves together somehow. But thank you to everyone whom has wished me well and been so kind over the last traumatic months xxx
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 8,415
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    sorry to hear that , we lost one early on but went on to have 2 healthy pain in the arses , time is a great healer .........
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 12,881
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    (((((((Shadow27))))))))) Oh I am so sorry. I lost a much-wanted baby at seven weeks as well. Oh that is just so sad for you. I know how much you yearned for a baby. :(
  • MookleMookle Posts: 1,339
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    I am so sorry... I read about how long you had been trying for. There are no words anyone can say now but take care of yourselves.

    I am so sorry for your loss xxx
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,119
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    I have nothing constructive to say but didn't want to read and not leave a reply, I am truely sorry for your loss shadow all the best for the future .
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 14,284
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    Oh no. Oh my god, I am so, so, so sorry for you and your husband. I have a massive lump in my throat. I was really rooting for you. I wish I had something less trite to say. :(
  • miss-kittymiss-kitty Posts: 1,518
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    Oh Shadow, I just don't know what to say! :(
    I don't think there is ANYTHING I can say that could take this pain away. I am so sorry to hear your news though.
    (((hugs)))

    Thinking of you and Mr Shadow. xx
  • alfiewozerealfiewozere Posts: 29,508
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    I can only add my heartfelt condolences to you and your husband, I am so sorry to hear this. Look after yourselves.
  • LushnessLushness Posts: 38,165
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    I'm sorry to hear such awful news. My thoughts are with you.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 6,929
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    Shadow, words won't help for now but I too couldn't read your OP and not express my heartfelt sadness at this news. Most of us are strangers here but it doesn't stop us from caring. I send you both my love x
  • nickyislady_tnickyislady_t Posts: 597
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    Shadow I'm so so sorry for what has happened.
    Not sure what I can really say but couldnt leave without replying.

    I'll be thinking of you.

    Xx
  • spimfspimf Posts: 6,342
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    Oh i am so sorry to hear that, i was really hoping everything would be well. I know nothing anyone can say will be of comfort but everyone is thinking of you.
  • whackyracerwhackyracer Posts: 15,786
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    Sorry to hear that shadow, take care of yourself.
  • ejmejm Posts: 3,515
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    I'm so sorry. Be kind to each other x
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 717
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    Very sad news. Take care, Shadow.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,547
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    Oh Shadow, I am so truly very sorry for your loss. I hope you can find the strength along with your husband to get through this awfully sad time. Please take care.
  • cjsmummycjsmummy Posts: 11,079
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    Very sad to read this. I'm so sorry.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 9,328
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    Oh no,I'm so sorry:( I had been checking in on the baby boom thread all day today to see how you got on.

    Sending you and your OH lots of love and strength. Take care of yourselves xxx
  • Its-GillianIts-Gillian Posts: 3,130
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    Awww bless, i'm so sorry for you!
  • snoopy33snoopy33 Posts: 1,218
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    Love to you and your husband xx
  • StressMonkeyStressMonkey Posts: 13,347
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    Oh babes I am so, so sorry.

    Make sure you allow yourself to grieve Shadow (& Mr Shadow) and be kind to yourselves.

    My thoughts are with you both xx
  • Abbasolutely 40Abbasolutely 40 Posts: 15,589
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    I am sorry to hear your news .Look after each other x
  • gillypandagillypanda Posts: 13,963
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    What sad news :( ((((Mr & Mrs Shadow)))) Look after yourselves xxxx
  • GODDESSGODDESS Posts: 1,304
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    Bless you both ((((hugs)))) x
  • missyaliciamissyalicia Posts: 2,068
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    This is very sad. I really hope you are both ok.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 32,379
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    I'm sorry for your loss shadow. Sadly my wife and I were in the same situation. We have no children.
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