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Met a 38 year old Virgin male yesterday!

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I was talking to a guy yesterday who is still a Virgin and he's 38. :o He said he likes women but lacks the confidence to get intimate with them. I felt really sorry for him, it must be like torture to go that long without. :(
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    ThePerfectOneThePerfectOne Posts: 20,466
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    I am 39 and still a virgin and have the same prob with lack of confidence :(
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    kippehkippeh Posts: 6,655
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    OP you're hardly going to generate any kind of surprise here you know.
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    ElyanElyan Posts: 8,781
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    Is this him?

    http://images.t-nation.com/forum_images/b/a/baeb3-86db5_rude011.jpg
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    JJ75JJ75 Posts: 1,954
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    KennyKeegan wrote: »
    I was talking to a guy yesterday who is still a Virgin and he's 38. :o He said he likes women but lacks the confidence to get intimate with them. I felt really sorry for him, it must be like torture to go that long without. :(

    Thing is, he wont know what he's missing will he, so probably not torture.
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    James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    KennyKeegan wrote: »
    I was talking to a guy yesterday who is still a Virgin and he's 38. :o He said he likes women but lacks the confidence to get intimate with them. I felt really sorry for him, it must be like torture to go that long without. :(

    Not really as he has never had it and you can't miss what you never had
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    fleabeefleabee Posts: 1,852
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    kippeh wrote: »
    OP you're hardly going to generate any kind of surprise here you know.

    hahahaha:D
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    Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    kippeh wrote: »
    OP you're hardly going to generate any kind of surprise here you know.

    Lol very true. Its perfectly normal on DS
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    GroutyGrouty Posts: 34,031
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    42 here.
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    3Sheets2TheWind3Sheets2TheWind Posts: 3,028
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    KennyKeegan wrote: »
    I was talking to a guy yesterday who is still a Virgin and he's 38. :o He said he likes women but lacks the confidence to get intimate with them. I felt really sorry for him, it must be like torture to go that long without. :(

    Offer to pay for a massage with a happy ending for him.

    It's what friends are for :p

    Very brave of him to admit it to you though.
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    FMKKFMKK Posts: 32,074
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    kippeh wrote: »
    OP you're hardly going to generate any kind of surprise here you know.

    :D:D:D
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    lordOfTimelordOfTime Posts: 22,370
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    "Like Torture" Yea okay. :confused:

    People, it really doesn't matter!!!
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    stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    Daygamer, was he?
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    21stCenturyBoy21stCenturyBoy Posts: 44,506
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    Different stokes for different folks.

    And if that means stroking your own, all power to ya.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 237
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    kippeh wrote: »
    OP you're hardly going to generate any kind of surprise here you know.

    Really? I don't think you'd find many men approaching 40 who still have their V-plates.
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    UffaUffa Posts: 1,910
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    stoatie wrote: »
    Daygamer, was he?

    Cruel but very funny.
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    cavallicavalli Posts: 18,738
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    What was his DS username?
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 237
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    3Sheets2TheWind wrote: »
    Offer to pay for a massage with a happy ending for him.

    It's what friends are for :p

    Very brave of him to admit it to you though.

    He's not a friend, more of a colleague if anything.

    He didn't seem particularly embarrassed to admit it either, which I found strange. :confused:
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    TrollHunterTrollHunter Posts: 12,496
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    3Sheets2TheWind wrote: »
    Offer to pay for a massage with a happy ending for him.

    It's what friends are for :p

    Very brave of him to admit it to you though.

    He'd still be a virgin though as a happy ending only involves a wank, not sex.
    (at least where I go... ;-))
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 7,341
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    So?
    What's the big deal about it and does it really matter?
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    lordOfTimelordOfTime Posts: 22,370
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    KennyKeegan wrote: »
    He's not a friend, more of a colleague if anything.

    He didn't seem particularly embarrassed to admit it either, which I found strange. :confused:

    Why? I really don't understand. :confused: Why does it seem to be acceptable to judge and define people by their virginity status? It might be strange to you but perfectly normal to him.
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    stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    I *think* one of my oldest friends is still a virgin, and he's nearly as old as me (early 40s). I've never asked him, though, because I don't actually care.
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    yellowparkyellowpark Posts: 2,125
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    Can you still be a virgin if you've only had gay sex?
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    kippehkippeh Posts: 6,655
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    cavalli wrote: »
    What was his DS username?

    Must...resist....
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    James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    KennyKeegan wrote: »
    Really? I don't think you'd find many men approaching 40 who still have their V-plates.
    KennyKeegan wrote: »
    He's not a friend, more of a colleague if anything.

    He didn't seem particularly embarrassed to admit it either, which I found strange. :confused:

    Why?


    Most people in this situation don't care and more often than not it's out of choice almost anybody (with the exception of medical reasons) can go out there and have sex hell you can even buy it if you want so it's no more difficult than going to the shop for a loaf of bread.
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    FMKKFMKK Posts: 32,074
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    yellowpark wrote: »
    Can you still be a virgin if you've only had gay sex?

    Only if you aren't counting it as 'real' sex, which would be a bizarre position to adopt.

    Was this guy a day-gamer by any chance? ;)
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