Ex girlfriend birthday tmrw. Should I get a card

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:14

This is a follow up to my earlier long thread, my ex girlfriend, who dumped me nearly a month ago, (on my birthday)she does not want to know me at all, but it is her birthday tmrw, should I get a card, or email, txt, happy birthday!

Babe Rainbow · 29/07/10 - 20:16

myscimitar wrote: »

This is a follow up to my earlier long thread, my ex girlfriend, who dumped me nearly a month ago, (on my birthday)she does not want to know me at all, but it is her birthday tmrw, should I get a card, or email, txt, happy birthday!

No........

Deb Arkle · 29/07/10 - 20:16

Not seen your other thread, but why would you give the time of day to someone who doesn't want to know you - birthday or not?

madlh100 · 29/07/10 - 20:17

No you shouldn't. Like you said she doesn't want to know you so what would be the point. Sounds like she wouldn't appreciate it anyway. She'd probably just throw it in the bin.

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:22

Why bother to aggravate the situation?

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:22

Still not sure why we broke up, we was engaged a month ago, had no problems, till the day! So thought it break the ice to maybe talk!

DaisyBumbleroot · 29/07/10 - 20:23

no, she might think you are stalking her.

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:26

Absolutely not. Ignore the birthday. Stay cool and distant.

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:26

If she wanted to talk to you, she would have been in touch.

Pistol Whip · 29/07/10 - 20:28

Send a strip-o-gram 'round!

Babe Rainbow · 29/07/10 - 20:29

myscimitar wrote: »

Still not sure why we broke up, we was engaged a month ago, had no problems, till the day! So thought it break the ice to maybe talk!

Doesn't matter why - she doesn't want to know you - let it go and move on.

Anything else would look like desperate stalking.

Double Decker · 29/07/10 - 20:30

No, keep your dignity intact and keep well clear.

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:32

myscimitar wrote: »

This is a follow up to my earlier long thread, my ex girlfriend, who dumped me nearly a month ago, (on my birthday)she does not want to know me at all, but it is her birthday tmrw, should I get a card, or email, txt, happy birthday!

Yes send a card, then email and txt to see if she has got the card, then call if she doesn't reply. :cool:

Babe Rainbow · 29/07/10 - 20:34

browncube wrote: »

Yes send a card, then email and txt to see if she has got the card, then call if she doesn't reply. :cool:

..... and get the police to pop round and kick the door down just in case she has spontaneously combusted into a tiny pile of ash on the carpet.

Taglet · 29/07/10 - 20:36

browncube wrote: »

Yes send a card, then email and txt to see if she has got the card, then call if she doesn't reply. :cool:

...give her a knock if she doesnt answer the phone! :eek: .......look what you made me do!!

OP, leave well alone....my ex sent me a card with a soppy verse and it just made me cringe. Surely you are worth more than a cringe.

Caramel Crunch · 29/07/10 - 20:37

No!!!

welshmam · 29/07/10 - 20:38

myscimitar wrote: »

This is a follow up to my earlier long thread, my ex girlfriend, who dumped me nearly a month ago, (on my birthday)she does not want to know me at all, but it is her birthday tmrw, should I get a card, or email, txt, happy birthday!

NO. ....

Taglet · 29/07/10 - 20:39

Babe Rainbow wrote: »

..... and get the police to pop round and kick the door down just in case she has spontaneously combusted into a tiny pile of ash on the carpet.

....not just me then.

Babe Rainbow · 29/07/10 - 20:41

Babe Rainbow wrote: »

No........

madlh100 wrote: »

No you shouldn't.

DaisyBumbleroot wrote: »

no, she might think you are stalking her.

Double Decker wrote: »

No, keep your dignity intact

Caramel Crunch wrote: »

No!!!

welshmam wrote: »

NO. ....

You just know that he's gonna do it anyway though, innit

He's not gonna be able to stop himself, fool that he is !!!!

jackol · 29/07/10 - 20:43

The answer is in the word "ex"

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:43

Babe Rainbow wrote: »

You just know that he's gonna do it anyway though, innit
He's not gonna be able to stop himself, fool that he is !!!!

Bless you.... I was about to say that we'll get a post of OP in a bit, saying that he has send he a short text, telling her that he hasn't forgotten her birthday, and that he would like to talk to her.

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:46

I'll add my 'no'. Keep some self respect. Just move on.

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 20:48

Ok point taken, guess i won't just needed some advice, in heart, i knew i should not. So won't

Double Decker · 29/07/10 - 20:54

myscimitar wrote: »

Ok point taken, guess i won't just needed some advice, in heart, i knew i should not. So won't

move away from the phone/cards etc. Stay strong.

Summer-Skies · 29/07/10 - 21:16

sheikyerbootie wrote: »

Absolutely not. Ignore the birthday. Stay cool and distant.

Definatly no!!!

[Deleted User] · 29/07/10 - 21:26

She's an EX for a reason....not worth the hassle.
If you did, you're likely not to get a response or she'll respond and break your heart even more. Plus she might be waiting for you to be weak, give in and then do some more damage.

Just leave it, step away.....if she wants you back let her do the running

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