Are big boobs so bad?
parthy
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I'm 26 and thoughts of aging have been entering my head recently.
I have big boobs (they're a nice shape though), though they have increased with weight gain, and I'm in the process of losing weight at the moment (it's going well).
Now, as a woman I've always thought small breasts and big breasts were all beautiful. With smaller boobs you can where some gorgeous clothes that you just can't get away with if you're bigger plus they're perkier. But then I always like my boobs too regardless.
But the internet is a dangerous place at times, and while I was not feeling so great about myself last night, I googled some stuff...
General consensus - small boobs are better because bigger ones get all gross and saggy and just get in the way in bed, and that more than a handful is a waste. All this is true, I guess, but it's just depressing because there's not much I can do about it. To compliment small-breasted grils, posters seemed to go out of their way to trash big-boobed women. And I have seen saggy small boobs. (Look at Barbara Windsor's in her 30s and 40s)
Ugh, this is a rambly OP, I know, but I guess I'm asking, if you love the girl does it matter either way? (including when the boobies get older)
Be honest, of course.
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I have big boobs (they're a nice shape though), though they have increased with weight gain, and I'm in the process of losing weight at the moment (it's going well).
Now, as a woman I've always thought small breasts and big breasts were all beautiful. With smaller boobs you can where some gorgeous clothes that you just can't get away with if you're bigger plus they're perkier. But then I always like my boobs too regardless.
But the internet is a dangerous place at times, and while I was not feeling so great about myself last night, I googled some stuff...
General consensus - small boobs are better because bigger ones get all gross and saggy and just get in the way in bed, and that more than a handful is a waste. All this is true, I guess, but it's just depressing because there's not much I can do about it. To compliment small-breasted grils, posters seemed to go out of their way to trash big-boobed women. And I have seen saggy small boobs. (Look at Barbara Windsor's in her 30s and 40s)
Ugh, this is a rambly OP, I know, but I guess I'm asking, if you love the girl does it matter either way? (including when the boobies get older)
Be honest, of course.
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Also, it depends if they're in proportion to the rest of the body, and as to what people find attractive - I don't like them too big.
And you can get bra's to make them look bigger, push up ones, padded, water ones, etcetc, and there isn't anything like that to make them look smaller.
So I prefer them smaller.
Well, of course.
Even small ones?
Also, if a larger woman has bigger boobs then it's not as good as if a skinnier one did.
Have you ever heard of the pencil test?
If you can tuck a pencil under your boobs and the pencil sticks, your boobs are saggy.
But I would love to have biggens, even just for a day! So dont let people slate them. It doesn't matter either way really does it. Loads more important things in life.
My big brested friend used to say she hated the way they went under her arm pits when lying in bed, so she prefered to be on top LOL but little boobs still point downwards when bending over, so it's no better anyway!
My last two boyfriends made me paranoid because they both professed a preference for small boobs but claimed they loved mine. Lip service, I guess!
No, a C cup is perfect, I wish I was that size. :cool:
Yeah, I failed that.
Not ALL fake ones look ridiculous. I would wager that you have met/seen lots of women who have had boob jobs and you haven't even realised.
When I had larger boobs though I hated it, especially at school when I developed much faster than everyone else. I wanted to get a breast reduction for ages - glad I didn't now, as I've lost weight and so have they. But when I lost weight I did feel a bit sad having to go down a bra size!
LOL
When I heard that, myself and all my friends went home and went in search of pencils
If they love you then fundamentally in the end your tit size is not important.
Well, yeah, there are those undermuscle ones that look alright - I was referring more to the watermelon variety.
Honestly OP, you can't preserve yourself or stop your boobs or any other part of you ageing. Google Nigella Lawson and take comfort that at aged 50 she's very well upholstered and looking so much better than tiny chested Gillan McKeith.
No, this is very encouraging, this is what I WANT to happen.
They're not.