Should I stop being friends with him?
Keep in mind it's like one of my only friends. I've been good friends with him for about 7 years. He just won't call me for months and I like to go out for a drink and he used to enjoy this but now he makes excuses. I work nights so sleep late and he works days and has the nights off. He expects me to have time to do things in the day but I'm tired from working all night.
Everytime he gets a girlfriend he never calls and now I haven't heard from him again in months and haven't seen him for even longer. We were close and had good times he's always cool when I do get him on the phone but he is not making effort like he used too. What makes things more awkward is he is good mates with 2 guys I can't stand, both made my life miserable and love slating me behind my back. Whenever I see him he usually brings up how well they are doing.
Everytime he gets a girlfriend he never calls and now I haven't heard from him again in months and haven't seen him for even longer. We were close and had good times he's always cool when I do get him on the phone but he is not making effort like he used too. What makes things more awkward is he is good mates with 2 guys I can't stand, both made my life miserable and love slating me behind my back. Whenever I see him he usually brings up how well they are doing.
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You don't need to tell him you are no longer friends if this is the case. Usually people just drift apart when their lives are no longer compatible.
Sadly, I've had to do that several times in the last year, no matter how fond I was of those people. I was proven right though, as not once have any of them made any effort to contact me, so clearly the friendship wasn't important to them.
I have to say that I agree with this. I've found the same over the years, sometimes friendships just drift apart and sometimes you can pick up with someone even if you haven't seen them for a long time.
I think the OP needs to get out and make some new friends so that he is not obsessing about this person or letting this person have any undue influence over his life. Then he can see this friend occasionally if it works out. No need to cause a big drama with ultimatums or such like.