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How can i get back with my x
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Hi Everyone
Me and my x broke up 2 weeks ago today she said its just not what i want!
Anyways we've been in contact every day since but its only been general chit chat. I told her the other day i was goin to delete her of facebook for a few days for some space and she said fine whatever you need.
Yesterday was the first day we havnt spoken. Im thinking bout trying to not txt or speak to her until friday then ask her if i can go round to hers to chat.
Can anyone give me anymore advice?
thanks
Danny
Me and my x broke up 2 weeks ago today she said its just not what i want!
Anyways we've been in contact every day since but its only been general chit chat. I told her the other day i was goin to delete her of facebook for a few days for some space and she said fine whatever you need.
Yesterday was the first day we havnt spoken. Im thinking bout trying to not txt or speak to her until friday then ask her if i can go round to hers to chat.
Can anyone give me anymore advice?
thanks
Danny
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IT IS NOT WHAT SHE WANTS.
She's told you it isn't what she wants, I realise this isn't what you want to hear but you are only prolonging the agony by hoping she will get back with you.
Save face and carry on, you'll soon know if she has a change of heart.
Focus on you, stop wanting and focusing on something that isn't going to happen right now. If she has a change of heart, great, but it's not happening right now.
Staying friends very rarely works in my experience, especially when one person wants more.
Not the answer you were looking for, but there you go.
but focus on other things too, that you didnt use to
dont be the chaser
But you cant blame him, for wanting to give things another try - she's giving the poor bloke mixed signals.
instead of saying: 'stay away, we are finished' - and breaking all contact - she's engaging in very friendly chit-chat on facebook, making the bloke think, there's a whiff of hope.
Never mind the friendly chit chat, the OP clearly states she has said it is not what she wants, I'm not sure she can make it any clearer. Hopefully the OP has decided to move on and busy himself with friends etc rather than flogging a dead horse. And let's face it, there's nothing less attractive than someone misguidedly pursuing a relationship that's dead in the water and reading into things that aren't there, such as as polite conversation.
Yes, I agree, from the woman's point of view, it's clear, that she doesn't want him.
but some men are thick, when chit-chat starts, they think there's a bit of light at the end of the tunnel.
she would have been better off, breaking all conversation.
It's only general chit-chat they are having.Unless she is saying things that makes him think there is a chance with her then the girl has done nothing wrong.
How long did the 2 of you go out for Danny?
can work the other way to...maybe the lady in question doesn't like confrontation and doesn't want to hurt the OPs feelings..therefore hoping he will accept casual friendship and eventually move on...