I just had a look on adultwork and its very tempting to book an escort especially when I have no sex life!
Just make sure you find the right one and somebody who is real obviously. You won't get much out of a once off standard in call hourly visit. You've got to get to know the woman and likewise she you. Then both of you can more relaxed when you are together.
My favourite lady knows exactly what I like and I know exactly what she likes.
That is the bottom line. I think I've used up most of the puns now.
Dunno just don''t want to get any disease and the thought that the girl has been seeing other men before me is a bit disgusting...
Of course there is a chance of catching something but I never have. Any decent escort takes care and is more careful than the average woman on the street. Seeing a girl who has seen men before can be a harder to thing to get out of your head, and is usually more of a problem in a parlour environment.
Just make sure you find the right one and somebody who is real obviously. You won't get much out of a once off standard in call hourly visit. You've got to get to know the woman and likewise she you. Then both of you can more relaxed when you are together.
My favourite lady knows exactly what I like and I know exactly what she likes.
That is the bottom line. I think I've used up most of the puns now.
BIB - Sorry, but that bit is nonsense. Any girl who has to get to know you before giving you a good service is not very cut out for this job. As long as you are clean and respectful a good escort will provide you with a good time whether it is your 1st or 100th time seeing her.
No way I'd pay those prices for any lady. £100 for 15 mins.
It would take me half that time to get undressed. I guess the cigarette and a drink isn't even on the table.
Yorkshire according to her profile...
But that's the point I was making, there are different levels of prostitution and yet people constantly stereotype based on the lowest tier.
Fees go quite a bit higher than this girl too, she was just an easy to find random example.
With regard to the girl I knew, by the time I stopped seeing her (80s some time) I was really earning quite substantial amounts, 4 to 5 times what I earn now in fact but had I been a punter I would have had to think twice with the fees she charged
Dunno just don''t want to get any disease and the thought that the girl has been seeing other men before me is a bit disgusting...
Don't do it then. If she doesn't insist on you wearing a condom for penis vagina interaction, just walk away. It's not worth taking the risk, just for a bit of sexy time. Oral either way is low risk HIV wise, unless you have open sores/cuts etc. in contact areas, but penetrative penis vagina sex isn't without using a condom. Going bare back is just not an option. Most decent high class escorts will have been taking precautions from day one, but like with any sex, however it occurs, you can only be 100% sure by having an HIV test. And your lady should have a plentiful supply of condoms.
BIB - Sorry, but that bit is nonsense. Any girl who has to get to know you before giving you a good service is not very cut out for this job. As long as you are clean and respectful a good escort will provide you with a good time whether it is your 1st or 100th time seeing her.
I beg to differ, for the simple reason it is difficult for one to have enough time to get everything you want to get done in the standard one hour slot.
So, you've got to experiment a bit and tell each other what you want. So, next time you return, you know more about what each of you want or have to do.
Some girls on there are fake so try and be careful if you do. I doubt I would book somebody off there if they never had a few positive reviews.
It's one of the problems with the backward attitudes in this country, not only does it make it less safe for the girls it also makes it more likely that the punters will get ripped off by fakes...
Following my earlier post, a quick price breakdown from an ordinary girl on a well known site...
Rates 15 mins ½ Hour 1 Hour 1½ Hours 2 Hours 3 Hours 4 Hours Overnight
In Calls 100____140___250___320____400____600___800____1200
Out Call 130____160___270___340____420____620____800___1200
The table didn't copy very well but never mind it's easy to work it out.
Anyone who thinks you are going to pay those figures for a broken down junkie is deluding themselves and that isn't even the top range...
On the positive, with prices like that the women are probably much more picky about who they entertain because their earning level will be about quality rather than quantity. Sadly the girls on the street don't command anywhere as much as that. We give out 8 condoms to each girl on a night and although that's essentially their 'allowance' they always want a double pack.
Some girls on there are fake so try and be careful if you do. I doubt I would book somebody off there if they never had a few positive reviews.
It's one of the problems with the backward attitudes in this country, not only does it make it less safe for the girls it also makes it more likely that the punters will get ripped off by fakes...
Dunno just don''t want to get any disease and the thought that the girl has been seeing other men before me is a bit disgusting...
If you look on the profiles on the site you mentioned in every one some idiot will ask "do you do bareback"....
Quite honestly I don't know why a girl would ever entertain a punter that even asked that as they quite clearly have no respect for their own health let alone hers!
But that's the point I was making, there are different levels of prostitution and yet people constantly stereotype based on the lowest tier.
Fees go quite a bit higher than this girl too, she was just an easy to find random example.
With regard to the girl I knew, by the time I stopped seeing her (80s some time) I was really earning quite substantial amounts, 4 to 5 times what I earn now in fact but had I been a punter I would have had to think twice with the fees she charged
TBH I don't think its stereotyping at the lowest tier, certainly not by me and I'm working in the field, so to speak. When you are talking about escorts who command a huge fee and haven't got the associated problems then for me they are exercising free choice about what they do and that's their right. I think the only reason the focus takes a dips towards the lower end is because they are the women with the problems.
It's one of the problems with the backward attitudes in this country, not only does it make it less safe for the girls it also makes it more likely that the punters will get ripped off by fakes...
If you look on the profiles on the site you mentioned in every one some idiot will ask "do you do bareback"....
Quite honestly I don't know why a girl would ever entertain a punter that even asked that as they quite clearly have no respect for their own health let alone hers!
I am not sure if them questions have been asked or not. I think the women just use them to get their point across.
They have a list of likes and on the side of their profile. If a girl has bareback on her list I would never book them. Though I think some eastern european escorts, whose english might not be great, just tick everything not knowing what bareback is.
Quite honestly I don't know why a girl would ever entertain a punter that even asked that as they quite clearly have no respect for their own health let alone hers!
Even if the woman allows it, which most won't, you're an idiot if you do so. IMO.
Anyway, I've got to listen to some music now, so back later to answer any queries/questions.
I beg to differ, for the simple reason it is difficult for one to have enough time to get everything you want to get done in the standard one hour slot.
So, you've got to experiment a bit and tell each other what you want. So, next time you return, you know more about what each of you want or have to do.
You have seriously blurred the lines between paying for sex and being in a relationsip.
On the positive, with prices like that the women are probably much more picky about who they entertain because their earning level will be about quality rather than quantity.
They can certainly pick and choose yes...
As I keep saying my personal experience is limited, but I was seeing her for longer than a lot of marriages last and so got quite an insight into how she worked, what she thought about her work and how she felt about her clients.
I always found it fascinating as people were far less open about it then, it was still very much a taboo subject especially in the climate I was brought up in.
Sadly the girls on the street don't command anywhere as much as that. We give out 8 condoms to each girl on a night and although that's essentially their 'allowance' they always want a double pack.
I think it's very sad to be honest...
I really feel that a one law fits all is in many ways a bit of a nonsense too. Even if we adopted the Dutch model that I prefer many of these girls would fall outside that because their habits would probably bar them from working in licensed premisses.
There are no easy answers but I think Honeyball/Harmen and the like with their ill informed views are a real danger to these women....
You have seriously blurred the lines between paying for sex and being in a relationsip.
You think so? I don't. He seems realistic about his favourite escort, he's not under any illusion she has any emotional attachment to him, from what I've read. He enjoys her companionship and having sex with her, what's wrong with that? He sounds respectful and courteous. If I was an adult worker, he's the kind of client I'd like. I'm not though, I work in insurance, earning a fraction of what high calibre escorts earn.
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Just make sure you find the right one and somebody who is real obviously. You won't get much out of a once off standard in call hourly visit. You've got to get to know the woman and likewise she you. Then both of you can more relaxed when you are together.
My favourite lady knows exactly what I like and I know exactly what she likes.
That is the bottom line. I think I've used up most of the puns now.
Of course there is a chance of catching something but I never have. Any decent escort takes care and is more careful than the average woman on the street. Seeing a girl who has seen men before can be a harder to thing to get out of your head, and is usually more of a problem in a parlour environment.
BIB - Sorry, but that bit is nonsense. Any girl who has to get to know you before giving you a good service is not very cut out for this job. As long as you are clean and respectful a good escort will provide you with a good time whether it is your 1st or 100th time seeing her.
But that's the point I was making, there are different levels of prostitution and yet people constantly stereotype based on the lowest tier.
Fees go quite a bit higher than this girl too, she was just an easy to find random example.
With regard to the girl I knew, by the time I stopped seeing her (80s some time) I was really earning quite substantial amounts, 4 to 5 times what I earn now in fact but had I been a punter I would have had to think twice with the fees she charged
Don't do it then. If she doesn't insist on you wearing a condom for penis vagina interaction, just walk away. It's not worth taking the risk, just for a bit of sexy time. Oral either way is low risk HIV wise, unless you have open sores/cuts etc. in contact areas, but penetrative penis vagina sex isn't without using a condom. Going bare back is just not an option. Most decent high class escorts will have been taking precautions from day one, but like with any sex, however it occurs, you can only be 100% sure by having an HIV test. And your lady should have a plentiful supply of condoms.
I beg to differ, for the simple reason it is difficult for one to have enough time to get everything you want to get done in the standard one hour slot.
So, you've got to experiment a bit and tell each other what you want. So, next time you return, you know more about what each of you want or have to do.
I didn't assume, that's why I asked the question.
On the positive, with prices like that the women are probably much more picky about who they entertain because their earning level will be about quality rather than quantity. Sadly the girls on the street don't command anywhere as much as that. We give out 8 condoms to each girl on a night and although that's essentially their 'allowance' they always want a double pack.
Joni! I'm shocked :O
If you look on the profiles on the site you mentioned in every one some idiot will ask "do you do bareback"....
Quite honestly I don't know why a girl would ever entertain a punter that even asked that as they quite clearly have no respect for their own health let alone hers!
TBH I don't think its stereotyping at the lowest tier, certainly not by me and I'm working in the field, so to speak. When you are talking about escorts who command a huge fee and haven't got the associated problems then for me they are exercising free choice about what they do and that's their right. I think the only reason the focus takes a dips towards the lower end is because they are the women with the problems.
I am not sure if them questions have been asked or not. I think the women just use them to get their point across.
They have a list of likes and on the side of their profile. If a girl has bareback on her list I would never book them. Though I think some eastern european escorts, whose english might not be great, just tick everything not knowing what bareback is.
Even if the woman allows it, which most won't, you're an idiot if you do so. IMO.
Anyway, I've got to listen to some music now, so back later to answer any queries/questions.
You have seriously blurred the lines between paying for sex and being in a relationsip.
As I keep saying my personal experience is limited, but I was seeing her for longer than a lot of marriages last and so got quite an insight into how she worked, what she thought about her work and how she felt about her clients.
I always found it fascinating as people were far less open about it then, it was still very much a taboo subject especially in the climate I was brought up in.
I think it's very sad to be honest...
I really feel that a one law fits all is in many ways a bit of a nonsense too. Even if we adopted the Dutch model that I prefer many of these girls would fall outside that because their habits would probably bar them from working in licensed premisses.
There are no easy answers but I think Honeyball/Harmen and the like with their ill informed views are a real danger to these women....
It does seem that way with some of his posts.
wtf!!
Some women are, haven't you heard of it?
I'm not sure to be honest but I get very itchy after sex with one so I decided to get the coil instead.