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Do you like a good argument?

Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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Can you take the opposing view just to be contrary? Does it get your blood flowing? Do you look forward to the next response just so you can go back for another bash?
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    MrsceeMrscee Posts: 5,271
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    Depends on who you argue with. It can last for hours if you argue with somebody who thinks they are always right.I gave up on arguing long ago as it's not worth the effort.
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    Jesse PinkmanJesse Pinkman Posts: 5,794
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    No what makes my blood boil is people who won't or don't argue their point and skirt around avoiding the main point posed for page after page after page.

    Happens on all and every religious thread:
    "I believe in God and he says XXXXXXX"
    "Really? Leaving alone what you imagine he said, can you back up your claim of a God, upon whose existence you are basing you call to action?"
    "No. You prove that he doesn't exist then."
    "You made the claim so it's up to you to prove your claim"
    "I just know"
    "How do you just know?"
    "I just do"
    "And just upon that imagination you base your actions?"
    "Yes I do"
    "Don't you think that is all a bit silly?"
    "No"
    "So you have nothing to back up your argument that he even exists and yet still post what you think he said and what he means by it and what should be done about it, like it's all fact?"
    (carry on to page 454534542545987925.)

    On another thread about Royal Mail junk mail, I have asked repeatedly why should we be forced to do anything about it and that is never answered. Just loads of excuses, shifting of the blame and onus back onto me and never addressing the actual point posed. Anything but!
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    What if I was to say that God exists as a construct to help ancient people explain the mysteries of life and to provide a moral compass in what was a harsh and unrelenting world? Could you accept the idea of a God on that basis?
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    gasheadgashead Posts: 13,822
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    'Argument' implies aggression and personal attacks. Is that what you mean? Can't say I like that, however I do enjoy rational discussion and heated debate and will often take the opposing view to get one going. It's when one of you starts to take things personally that it becomes an arguement, at which point all rationality flies out the window and it ceases to be fun.
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    Jesse PinkmanJesse Pinkman Posts: 5,794
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    What if I was to say that God exists as a construct to help ancient people explain the mysteries of life and to provide a moral compass in what was a harsh and unrelenting world? Could you accept the idea of a God on that basis?

    I would strongly object to the word "Exists". It implies that it is a living being. (Or at least would be abused by followers in that way)

    I have no problem with your example but I would put it into more basic language: God is a made up thing. Made up long ago to give answers to people with feeble brains, that they didn't have.

    But all of that does not address why people are still making such claims today and certainly define this God thing as a sentient thing that really exists outside of them and not just an invention for people who can't cope with reality.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,787
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    is this a five minute argument, or the full half hour?
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    Jesse PinkmanJesse Pinkman Posts: 5,794
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    gashead wrote: »
    'Argument' implies aggression and personal attacks. Is that what you mean? Can't say I like that, however I do enjoy rational discussion and will often take the opposing view to get one going. It's when one of you starts to take things personally that it becomes an arguement, at which point all rationality flies out the window and it ceases to be fun.

    Then people need to educate themselves to what the word actually means rather than use it passively aggressively to try and shut the other person down.

    And argument is merely something someone puts forward as to what they has to say in an issue.

    It's something that a person presents and is expected to back up all of the points they make. (The religious don't however think that they do have to back up a word of what they spout)
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    stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    Didn't take long for this one to turn into a God thread, did it?
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    bratwurztbratwurzt Posts: 2,707
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    Shut your face!
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    gashead wrote: »
    'Argument' implies aggression and personal attacks. Is that what you mean? Can't say I like that, however I do enjoy rational discussion and heated debate and will often take the opposing view to get one going. It's when one of you starts to take things personally that it becomes an arguement, at which point all rationality flies out the window and it ceases to be fun.
    Potatoes po-tah-toes ..... argument, debate, discuss, frank exchange of views. A good old head to head.
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    Molly BloomMolly Bloom Posts: 2,318
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    No way, I really hate arguing. I'm just too sensitive, I think.
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    Swanandduck2Swanandduck2 Posts: 5,502
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    stoatie wrote: »
    Didn't take long for this one to turn into a God thread, did it?

    True. Some people never miss an opportunity.

    On topic, I enjoy a good intelligent or even heated debate about something. But when posters start getting personal, deliberately twisting posts, or not dealing with any responses and just barking out the same thing over and over as if this somehow makes it valid, it gets annoying and tedious.
    You can argue strongly or passionately about something without being rude, ignorant or insulting.
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    gasheadgashead Posts: 13,822
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    Then people need to educate themselves to what the word actually means rather than use it passively aggressively to try and shut the other person down.

    And argument is merely something someone puts forward as to what they has to say in an issue.

    It's something that a person presents and is expected to back up all of the points they make. (The religious don't however think that they do have to back up a word of what they spout)
    And some people need to understand a word in its whole context, not just one potential meaning. The OP clearly means 'argument' to mean as I described it. Why else talk about getting your ".. blood flowing" and "..go[ing] back for another bash" ? A person arguing for a certain p.o.v. doesn't want to do that. The OP clearly means the 'wind 'em up, watch up bite' style of discussion, i.e. a 'proper' argument.
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    I would strongly object to the word "Exists". It implies that it is a living being. (Or at least would be abused by followers in that way)
    Don't ideas exist? We have Laws. They're ideas about codes of conduct. They exist, surely?
    I have no problem with your example but I would put it into more basic language: God is a made up thing. Made up long ago to give answers to people with feeble brains, that they didn't have.
    Isn't that just rearranging the words to satisfy your idea of your own intellectual superiority?
    But all of that does not address why people are still making such claims today and certainly define this God thing as a sentient thing that really exists outside of them and not just an invention for people who can't cope with reality.
    Maybe some people find comfort in the idea of something bigger than themselves. Perhaps like the comfort one gets from knowing one's parents or grandparents are there to guide and advise.
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    True. Some people never miss an opportunity.

    On topic, I enjoy a good intelligent or even heated debate about something. But when posters start getting personal, deliberately twisting posts, or not dealing with any responses and just barking out the same thing over and over as if this somehow makes it valid, it gets annoying and tedious.
    How do you deal with that? How do you deal with the person who just doesn't "get it"?
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    gasheadgashead Posts: 13,822
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    Potatoes po-tah-toes ..... argument, debate, discuss, frank exchange of views. A good old head to head.
    It's really not, it depends on context*. If I said to someone "I've had an arguement with the missus", everyone would take that to mean a serious disagreement over something, probably involving shouting and door slamming. I don't believe anyone would think I was talking about a rational debate over whether the UK should join the Euro.

    * ETA - maybe you meant the 'rational debate' style, but why bring blood and bashing into it? As I say, that changed the context.
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    gashead wrote: »
    And some people need to understand a word in its whole context, not just one potential meaning. The OP clearly means 'argument' to mean as I described it. Why else talk about getting your ".. blood flowing" and "..go[ing] back for another bash" ? A person arguing for a certain p.o.v. doesn't want to do that. The OP clearly means the 'wind 'em up, watch up bite' style of discussion, i.e. a 'proper' argument.
    No, actually I did mean a good debate. My bad for the choice of word "argument" but it's not meant in a nasty sort of way.
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    ffawkesffawkes Posts: 4,495
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    No what makes my blood boil is people who won't or don't argue their point and skirt around avoiding the main point posed for page after page after page.

    Happens on all and every religious thread:
    "I believe in God and he says XXXXXXX"
    "Really? Leaving alone what you imagine he said, can you back up your claim of a God, upon whose existence you are basing you call to action?"
    "No. You prove that he doesn't exist then."
    "You made the claim so it's up to you to prove your claim"
    "I just know"
    "How do you just know?"
    "I just do"
    "And just upon that imagination you base your actions?"
    "Yes I do"
    "Don't you think that is all a bit silly?"
    "No"
    "So you have nothing to back up your argument that he even exists and yet still post what you think he said and what he means by it and what should be done about it, like it's all fact?"
    (carry on to page 454534542545987925.)

    On another thread about Royal Mail junk mail, I have asked repeatedly why should we be forced to do anything about it and that is never answered. Just loads of excuses, shifting of the blame and onus back onto me and never addressing the actual point posed. Anything but!


    Is this an example of someone who likes an argument so much he is now resorting to arguing with himself?
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    FizzbinFizzbin Posts: 36,827
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    fender101 wrote: »
    is this a five minute argument, or the full half hour?
    I've told you once.
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    gasheadgashead Posts: 13,822
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    No, actually I did mean a good debate. My bad for the choice of word "argument" but it's not meant in a nasty sort of way.
    Fair enough then.
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    kippehkippeh Posts: 6,655
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    Not really. If someone wants to believe they are right, then it's a waste of time and energy trying to argue otherwise I've found.
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    bratwurzt wrote: »
    Shut your face!
    Eloquent and succinct lol

    :D
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    Chris FrostChris Frost Posts: 11,022
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    fender101 wrote: »
    is this a five minute argument, or the full half hour?
    A really good pot boiler can go on for days... ha ha ha
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    Swanandduck2Swanandduck2 Posts: 5,502
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    How do you deal with that? How do you deal with the person who just doesn't "get it"?

    I usually just get fed up and leave the thread. No doubt they see that as a victory , but there really is no arguing with some people. They won't even discuss an alternative point of view or concede on any point whatsoever, and when they can't think of a logical response to a post which challenges their view, they just start hitting out with insults and personal remarks.
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    kitty86kitty86 Posts: 7,034
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    It depends on how much time and energy I have to spare.
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