Whats the best way of achiving and setting aims for 2011.
How should i keep my hopes up ?
Am i to old to change my life for the better ? (i`m 24)
It's not your age that's the problem, it's your attitude.
I can't be bothered to give you any advice as the best advice has been given to you many times.
he starts the thread and sits back and waits......... we don't hear from him again.
Can you blame him for not coming back after the deluge of opprobrium that has been heaped upon him? I'm frequently guilty of that myself but sometimes I think it can go a bit too far.
Can you blame him for not coming back after the deluge of opprobrium that has been heaped upon him? I'm frequently guilty of that myself but sometimes I think it can go a bit too far.
Whats's the point in creating all the threads then? To be fair there are people who try their best to offer him advice, but it falls on deaf ears. He refuses to follow any advice given to him. Now that might be because he's a bit dim, or perhaps he is suffering from some sort of mental disorder. Perhaps not his fault, but he refuses to even go to a Doctor.
Who in their right minds, bar joanne01 posts the same crap over and over again for the five years they've been on? It's a shame you can't report concerns/fears you have about someones mental state when it gets this bad. People like robert are just left to aimlessly wander around the net posting the same thing over and over again.
The only way, in true "She-Devil" style, is to undergo a series of plastic surgery procedures to transform yourself into your sister. You must then kill her, and take her place. You may have to explain your own disappearance however.
Please check Bob's posting history, and then see if you still agree with this comment!
I have to admit I do quite enjoy Bob's threads - mostly because they frequently go off topic! I've read and participated in some great discussions on threads started by Bob, none of which have anything to do with the opening post
Keep doing what your doing:D You get a better response to your threads than most. You are entertaining in an irrtating sort of way. Try in 2011 to be a bit more original tho. You are a wee bit predictable:D
Whats the best way of achiving and setting aims for 2011.
How should i keep my hopes up ?
Am i to old to change my life for the better ? (i`m 24)
No you are not too old to change your life. When I was 24, I left my home town, to start a new life in the hope I would find out the truth of my illness, since then I have had 2 lots of brain surgery, been to Texas once & been to Australia 3 times. This year after almost losing hope, I got myself a loving girlfriend.
Yes I still have health problems as the surgery never worked for me, but I don't dwell on it & I try to make my life the best I possibly can. You have to stop wallowing in self pity. Your life is what you make it.
My advise to you for 2011 is start a new hobby or go out clubbing more, get your backside out on the social scene, yes it is difficult if you are not use to it, but it can be done. Hell with it, I even had hypnotherapy to build self confidence & it worked.
No you are not too old to change your life. When I was 24, I left my home town, to start a new life in the hope I would find out the truth of my illness, since then I have had 2 lots of brain surgery, been to Texas once & been to Australia 3 times. This year after almost losing hope, I got myself a loving girlfriend.
Yes I still have health problems as the surgery never worked for me, but I don't dwell on it & I try to make my life the best I possibly can. You have to stop wallowing in self pity. Your life is what you make it.
My advise to you for 2011 is start a new hobby or go out clubbing more, get your backside out on the social scene, yes it is difficult if you are not use to it, but it can be done. Hell with it, I even had hypnotherapy to build self confidence & it worked.
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT !!!!
Joking apart this is what makes me sad - someone with a decent piece of advice and an incredible life story wasting their time posting in a 'Robert' thread.
I'll never understand why he hasn't been banned. I still think he's using us in a social experiment...
What a way to treat someone who sounds as though they have depression.
Robert, why not make 2011 the year you get some help. Go see a professional and talk it all out.
The reason he gets 'treated' this way, is because we have all said what you have suggested many many times in the past, he ignores it completely (seems that other people are ignoring that we've said that too). Rob is not beyond help though as many people here have said, but he just ignores us when we tell him to do stuff.
If anything, on the face of it, I'm in a worse situation than Rob is (as I explained rather fully in his last thread which I think may have been deleted) but I am actually getting on with things and trying to make things better for myself. I know how hard this can be, and possibly why Rob isn't doing anything.
Rob, if you are still reading this thread, do yourself and all of us a favour. Get some professional help, and stop with the self-pitying on here.
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Set yourself some achievable goals such as brushing your teeth, staying single and living in your sister's shadow.
Then report back in 12 months to tell us how you managed to fail at even that.
It's not your age that's the problem, it's your attitude.
I can't be bothered to give you any advice as the best advice has been given to you many times.
You and me both, it isn't worth it. he starts the thread and sits back and waits......... we don't hear from him again.
Whats's the point in creating all the threads then? To be fair there are people who try their best to offer him advice, but it falls on deaf ears. He refuses to follow any advice given to him. Now that might be because he's a bit dim, or perhaps he is suffering from some sort of mental disorder. Perhaps not his fault, but he refuses to even go to a Doctor.
Who in their right minds, bar joanne01 posts the same crap over and over again for the five years they've been on? It's a shame you can't report concerns/fears you have about someones mental state when it gets this bad. People like robert are just left to aimlessly wander around the net posting the same thing over and over again.
He just keeps on repeating the same thing.
Please check Bob's posting history, and then see if you still agree with this comment!
I have to admit I do quite enjoy Bob's threads - mostly because they frequently go off topic! I've read and participated in some great discussions on threads started by Bob, none of which have anything to do with the opening post
People are well fed up with him.
Changing your life has nothing to do with age, Rob. It's all about attitude.
In which case, no, you stand no chance.
I am waiting to hear she has met the sister and gone off with her. Its the next logical step!
You would be getting harsh replies if you started around 30 threads asking the same question in slightly different ways.
No you are not too old to change your life. When I was 24, I left my home town, to start a new life in the hope I would find out the truth of my illness, since then I have had 2 lots of brain surgery, been to Texas once & been to Australia 3 times. This year after almost losing hope, I got myself a loving girlfriend.
Yes I still have health problems as the surgery never worked for me, but I don't dwell on it & I try to make my life the best I possibly can. You have to stop wallowing in self pity. Your life is what you make it.
My advise to you for 2011 is start a new hobby or go out clubbing more, get your backside out on the social scene, yes it is difficult if you are not use to it, but it can be done. Hell with it, I even had hypnotherapy to build self confidence & it worked.
DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT !!!!
Joking apart this is what makes me sad - someone with a decent piece of advice and an incredible life story wasting their time posting in a 'Robert' thread.
I'll never understand why he hasn't been banned. I still think he's using us in a social experiment...
propose to your sister?
Seriously though, god helps those who help themselves and all that.
Robert, why not make 2011 the year you get some help. Go see a professional and talk it all out.
If anything, on the face of it, I'm in a worse situation than Rob is (as I explained rather fully in his last thread which I think may have been deleted) but I am actually getting on with things and trying to make things better for myself. I know how hard this can be, and possibly why Rob isn't doing anything.
Rob, if you are still reading this thread, do yourself and all of us a favour. Get some professional help, and stop with the self-pitying on here.