ID in America/Getting Served!

samcheesesamcheese Posts: 1,830
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Hi

I'm off to America in March (San Francisco, Las Vegas and New York)

I'm 27 and hubby is 29, but he looks a tad younger than he is and I look A LOT younger than I am. I still get IDd a lot in the UK, and I've been reading online and been told by people that America is very strict with serving people??!

So I thought fair enough, I always have my licence with me anyway...however I've now read that some place don't even accept valid driving licences if foreign and will ONLY accept passports?! Is this right? Does it depend on state?

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  • fitnessqueenfitnessqueen Posts: 5,185
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    I'm 48 and my partner is 39. I'm always being told I look a lot younger than my age but I certainly don't look under 21. When we went to Washington in May to stay with my partner's sister she advised us to take our passports everywhere with us and indeed we got ID'd in nearly every pub and bar we went into. I even had a wristband with "drinking age verified" on it at one point (I had to take a photo of it :D).
  • scorpio20080scorpio20080 Posts: 2,894
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    Be vary when you go in Casinos! They tend to ask you for your passport regardless of your age (or probably because I too look underaged). We are planning a trip to Las Vegas this November, so plan on taking our passports + drivers licence - keeping the passports in our hotel safe and only taking our licence and passport photocopy just in case!:)
  • OsusanaOsusana Posts: 7,486
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    Some places are stricter than others but they can and do insist on photo ID in some places and often they ONLY accept passports. My nephew had his photo driving licence and his military photo ID last time we went and one place got very obstructive about serving him even with those.
  • Philip WalesPhilip Wales Posts: 6,373
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    Never had a problem with my Photo Driving License, but the US can be very strict, a couple of years ago we took my parents to Orlando, I dropped them and my wife at a bar, then drove back to the hotel, to walk back to the bar, my Mum couldn't get me a drink until I had turned up at the bar, and the server was happy I was over 21.
  • TomGrantTomGrant Posts: 4,251
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    We met a friends parents in New York a couple of years ago, and even they got ID'd everywhere we went.

    Definitely take your passport out, just keep it safe.
  • InspirationInspiration Posts: 62,702
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    Agree. I got ID'ed ever time I ordered alcohol and I never get asked in the UK, so they are very strict. I think it also depends on which state you're in too. As above, take your passport, but obviously make sure you put it straight back into a bag or something so you don't leave it in a bar or something.

    Enjoy.. sounds like a nice trip you have planned. America is a great country, especially the food.
  • Cissy FairfaxCissy Fairfax Posts: 11,801
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    In California, just carry your passport everywhere. My Mother & Father In Law have lived there for 10 years - in their 60s now and last time I went to the bar with him, he was ID, at 58!

    I was too. No passport (or aged ID) no drink. Seems daft but takes the ambiguity out of it I suppose. So long as you have your passport you should be fine, if you need a drink while you're there.

    Best to carry it elsewhere too. Wife and I went to get on a train - only three stops / 10 odd miles. They wouldn't let her on as she didn't have sufficient ID.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,173
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    I'm in America at the moment. Every single place we've been to to get alcohol (a lot) in San Fran, San Diego and LA has always accepted my and my friends driving license. Always better to take your passport out but I'm scared I lose mine.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 251
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    My husband and and I are grey haired and over 50, and we got asked for ID at a ball game, and in a supermarket when we bought wine. We showed our passports each time.
  • samcheesesamcheese Posts: 1,830
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    Ah cheers guys. I do feel reluctant to take my passport everywhere, guess I'm gonna have to make sure I have a secure bag with me! I'd rather that than walk for miles to a bar to get refused on the basis I have a driving licence rather than a passport. Even though both would be valid!
  • fitnessqueenfitnessqueen Posts: 5,185
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    samcheese wrote: »
    Ah cheers guys. I do feel reluctant to take my passport everywhere, guess I'm gonna have to make sure I have a secure bag with me! I'd rather that than walk for miles to a bar to get refused on the basis I have a driving licence rather than a passport. Even though both would be valid!

    It's very "touristy" but I carried mine in a bum bag (fanny pack!) round my waist rather than risk carrying it in a shoulder bag.
  • DMN1968DMN1968 Posts: 2,875
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    I go out there for work a fair bit, and its a regular occurrence for everyone in our group to get requested for proof of age - the youngest is probably about 35 and the oldest mid-60s. Many places seem to have a "check everyone regardless of how old they look" policy.

    My UK driving licence, which I keep in my wallet, has always been accepted.
  • nuttytiggernuttytigger Posts: 14,053
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    I think I might go to America just to experience the joy of getting ID'd again. However I haven't been asked here since I was about 23, but I still take it with me.

    Someone once told me Mexico was the same with ID, but its clearly not!
  • swindonvillageswindonvillage Posts: 745
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    samcheese wrote: »
    Hi

    I'm off to America in March (San Francisco, Las Vegas and New York)

    I'm 27 and hubby is 29, but he looks a tad younger than he is and I look A LOT younger than I am. I still get IDd a lot in the UK, and I've been reading online and been told by people that America is very strict with serving people??!

    So I thought fair enough, I always have my licence with me anyway...however I've now read that some place don't even accept valid driving licences if foreign and will ONLY accept passports?! Is this right? Does it depend on state?

    I am 35, wife is 30, we were over in the states for three weeks, just got back.

    Some places will ID everyone, even 80 year olds walking into a bar get ID'ed.

    I had passport and driving licence on me. Some places such as Bars in Boston will not accept a driving licence. Only a passport, I believe there are laws on what ID is acceptable in some states.

    You are more likely to get asked for ID in Big Cities and Airports. We did a massive road trip Only times I was IDed was Airport stop over on the way to the start of my trip, a tasting tour of a brewery and a bar in Boston. All three places they had a 100% ID policy.
  • swindonvillageswindonvillage Posts: 745
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    samcheese wrote: »
    Ah cheers guys. I do feel reluctant to take my passport everywhere, guess I'm gonna have to make sure I have a secure bag with me! I'd rather that than walk for miles to a bar to get refused on the basis I have a driving licence rather than a passport. Even though both would be valid!

    I think you may be required to have your passport on you at all times in the USA. Even the locals are required to carry ID at all times!
  • DebrajoanDebrajoan Posts: 1,917
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    Two years ago we were at Tampa International Airport and we went to a bar and I asked for a double shot of Crown Royal bourbon, and a glass of Pinot Grigio white wine.
    I was 48, almost 49, and my husband is considerably older, with plenty of hair, albeit salt and pepper.
    The barmaid, around 30 - 33, said, "Can I see some I.D. m'am?"
    I laughed and said, "That's cheered me up!"
    She said, deadpan, "I'm not kidding m'am, everyone has to show I.D., it doesn't matter if your husband is a Civil War veteran, I'm still going to have to see some I.D."
  • davidmcndavidmcn Posts: 12,108
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    Even the locals are required to carry ID at all times!

    Pretty sure the civil liberties nuts in the US would have a field day if that were suggested! There may be a de facto requirement to carry your driving license if you're wanting to buy booze, but (unlike some other countries) nobody's entitled to stop you in the street and demand to see your papers.
  • Jean-FrancoisJean-Francois Posts: 2,301
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    On a humorous note, I was in New York City around 1987 - 88, and I offered to drive two young women
    of my acquaintance back to Binghamton, upstate New York, where they were at college.
    At the time I was in my late 30's, maybe 40, the ladies were around 22 - 23.
    We stopped off in a bar at Scranton Pa., not far before the Pennsylvania/New York state line.
    We sat at a table and I ordered 2 glasses of wine and a shot of Jim Beam.
    The server said, "Can I see some ID for the ladies?"
    I said, "That's okay, they're with me."
    He came back with, "They may be your daughters sir, but I have to see ID."
    OUCH!
  • StudmuffinStudmuffin Posts: 4,377
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    I think you may be required to have your passport on you at all times in the USA. Even the locals are required to carry ID at all times!

    That is simply not true.

    OP, I've had friends from the UK out to visit who are in their 30s and 40s who have been refused alcohol using a UK driving licence as proof of ID. It was a passport or nothing.
  • PandakooPandakoo Posts: 5,427
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    I'm currently living in California. I've just turned 21 and i get ID EVERYWHERE. I use my driving licence every time and there has never been a problem. I don't like taking my passport out and don't want to risk it. Bouncers/Clubs are used to foreign ID so it doesn't phase them. The only times it is a bit of a hassle is when i go to the grocery store and buy alcohol or cigarettes because they aren't used to the ID it takes them about 5 minutes to understand it and they study it really hard but i've never been refused. As soon as you open your mouth they can tell you are not from here.
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