Jessie J no longer Bisexual

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https://uk.celebrity.yahoo.com/gossip/omg/jessie-j-says-her-bisexuality-was-a-phase-and-is-on-the-hunt-for-a-hubby-110636044.html

' It was a phase ' she said and has grown up and is on the hunt for a husband ,

Personally I think she was not Bi in the first place and was just attention seeking to build a following like so many do
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  • WhedoniteWhedonite Posts: 29,239
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    It's a bit strange. A lot of people were convinced she is actually a lesbian. People have claimed that she was "out" as gay until she became famous. I'm sure there will be a few blind items about this soon enough.

    If she really is into men only, she has never been bisexual.
  • skp20040skp20040 Posts: 66,874
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    Or maybe it was true and she was attracted to both sexes but is now more attracted to men and has decided that's what she wants. She has not put the experience down at all she has just said that she has grown into her own skin and changed over the years and this is what she now wants. I see nothing wrong with that, many people have led a straight lifestyle (not all have known they are gay and tried to suppress it or been afraid to come out some just do not really know until it all clicks into place ) for many years to later realise they are gay and accept that was what was missing from their lives and go for what makes them happy
    Whedonite wrote: »
    It's a bit strange. A lot of people were convinced she is actually a lesbian. People have claimed that she was "out" as gay until she became famous. I'm sure there will be a few blind items about this soon enough.

    If she really is into men only, she has never been bisexual.

    She has decided that is what makes her happier now , so it does not mean she was never bisexual. She has no reason to lie she could have just dated men as as a bisexual that would have been seen as normal, with people doubting her word she would have known she had more to lose by saying this so surely would not have said it were it not true.,
  • fefsterfefster Posts: 7,388
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    She isn't selling any music - it is a tad desperate IF this is true
  • ElectraElectra Posts: 55,660
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    Maybe being straight is better for sales
  • trevvytrev21trevvytrev21 Posts: 16,973
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    "I see my fans becoming who they are and it's amazing! Whatever sexuality they chose, or have chosen, love is love."

    Oh dear. First rule of popstarhood Jester J, don't offend the gays. :kitty:

    Sexuality is fluid, that's fine, her business - but she went in hard using her apparent bisexuality for promotional purposes early on in her career. Not impressed.
  • WhedoniteWhedonite Posts: 29,239
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    skp20040 wrote: »
    She has decided that is what makes her happier now , so it does not mean she was never bisexual. She has no reason to lie she could have just dated men as as a bisexual that would have been seen as normal, with people doubting her word she would have known she had more to lose by saying this so surely would not have said it were it not true.,

    If she is not attracted to women, she isn't bisexual. She is saying she is attracted only to men and that she went through a "phase" with women. That's not bisexuality. From what I remember, she never claimed to be bi anyway.
  • trevvytrev21trevvytrev21 Posts: 16,973
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    If she is not attracted to women, she isn't bisexual. She is saying she is attracted only to men and that she went through a "phase" with women. That's not bisexuality. From what I remember, she never claimed to be bi anyway.

    Yes she certainly has. Article from 2011:

    But now the newcomer has opened up about her sexuality, telling British radio station In Demand, "I've never denied it. Whoopie doo guys, yes, I've dated girls and I've dated boys - get over it."

    Read more: http://www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/w0010713.html#ixzz2yJ7KCTHN
  • WhedoniteWhedonite Posts: 29,239
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    Yes she certainly has. Article from 2011:

    But now the newcomer has opened up about her sexuality, telling British radio station In Demand, "I've never denied it. Whoopie doo guys, yes, I've dated girls and I've dated boys - get over it."

    Read more: http://www.aceshowbiz.com/news/view/w0010713.html#ixzz2yJ7KCTHN

    That's not claiming to be bisexual. Dating a woman does not suddenly make her bi. Like she said, she had a phase. One that she clearly didn't really care too much for since she no longer has any desire for women.
  • MicrokorgMicrokorg Posts: 2,670
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    I don't care who she fancies as long as she does not sing!
  • soulboy77soulboy77 Posts: 24,488
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    It's a bit strange. A lot of people were convinced she is actually a lesbian. People have claimed that she was "out" as gay until she became famous. I'm sure there will be a few blind items about this soon enough.

    If she really is into men only, she has never been bisexual.
    Perhaps she has been cured! ;-)
  • trevvytrev21trevvytrev21 Posts: 16,973
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    That's not claiming to be bisexual. Dating a woman does not suddenly make her bi. Like she said, she had a phase. One that she clearly didn't really care too much for since she no longer has any desire for women.

    It would heavily suggest she isn't straight, though. :confused:

    She's always given such strong lesbian vibes to me, I'm quite surprised... :blush:
  • WhedoniteWhedonite Posts: 29,239
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    It would heavily suggest she isn't straight, though. :confused:

    Why? She doesn't fancy women. She went through a "phase". A lot of people do that.
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    Sexuality is fluid, that's fine, her business - but she went in hard using her apparent bisexuality for promotional purposes early on in her career. Not impressed.

    This.
  • attackmusicattackmusic Posts: 3,828
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    spookyLX wrote: »
    https://uk.celebrity.yahoo.com/gossip/omg/jessie-j-says-her-bisexuality-was-a-phase-and-is-on-the-hunt-for-a-hubby-110636044.html

    ' It was a phase ' she said and has grown up and is on the hunt for a husband ,

    Personally I think she was not Bi in the first place and was just attention seeking to build a following like so many do

    I don't think it was attention seeking, I think she dated women but now she is only interested in men. It is quite problematic though. As a bisexual female I find it quite insulting, like you can suddenly change your sexuality. But I do accept for some people their sexuality is rather fluid. But her comparing it to a vegetarian occasionally eating meat was a bit problematic!!!

    I won't judge her as harshly as some has because only she has the right to comment on what her sexual preference is, but her ranting on twitter was a bit much.
  • Nobby BurtonNobby Burton Posts: 1,869
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    When i saw the title, i expected her to have come out as fully gay
  • trevvytrev21trevvytrev21 Posts: 16,973
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    Why? She doesn't fancy women. She went through a "phase". A lot of people do that.

    She certainly fancied them enough at one point, I think it went beyond dating and she had a long-term thing with a woman...? I don't have one iota of a problem with her private life, but when she starts throwing around words like choice when talking about sexuality it's going to get some hackles up.
  • WhedoniteWhedonite Posts: 29,239
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    She certainly fancied them enough at one point, I think it went beyond dating and she had a long-term thing with a woman...? I don't have one iota of a problem with her private life, but when she starts throwing around words like choice when talking about sexuality it's going to get some hackles up.

    Has she ever claimed she is sexuality attracted to women or did she just say she has dated them?
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 585
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    Hopefully one day labels won't matter.
  • GroutyGrouty Posts: 34,031
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    Out of 10.......

    You get the drift :p
  • skp20040skp20040 Posts: 66,874
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    That's not claiming to be bisexual. Dating a woman does not suddenly make her bi. Like she said, she had a phase. One that she clearly didn't really care too much for since she no longer has any desire for women.

    She may now feel her sexual interest and future lies with a male partner but she did date women so therefore was bisexual at some point, being open to dating both sexes does not make you straight at the time you are doing it.

    Whedonite wrote: »
    Has she ever claimed she is sexuality attracted to women or did she just say she has dated them?



    In her own words on Alan Carr " I'm a bush basher"

    The lady has over time decided her future happiness lies with a male partner, what is so wrong with that.
  • Gusto BruntGusto Brunt Posts: 12,351
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    spookyLX wrote: »
    https://uk.celebrity.yahoo.com/gossip/omg/jessie-j-says-her-bisexuality-was-a-phase-and-is-on-the-hunt-for-a-hubby-110636044.html

    ' It was a phase ' she said and has grown up and is on the hunt for a husband ,

    Personally I think she was not Bi in the first place and was just attention seeking to build a following like so many do


    You're right. Most women play the lipstick lesbian card to grab attention. I would say there are far fewer women loving sex with women, than we might imagine.

    If you look at the adult industry. 99% of so-called 'lesbian' pornstars are straight. It's called 'gay for pay'.
  • d56d56 Posts: 5,471
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    I don't care what sexuality she is, the woman is a self obsessed muppet.
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    Has she ever claimed she is sexuality attracted to women or did she just say she has dated them?

    Just dated one woman in particular. Going by other forums she used to hit Jessie and cheated on her throughout their entire relationship. She was around 19 when they first started dating. That's right around the time people start "experimenting." She's 26 now. Things change.
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    skp20040 wrote: »
    She may now feel her sexual interest and future lies with a male partner but she did date women so therefore was bisexual at some point, being open to dating both sexes does not make you straight at the time you are doing it.






    In her own words on Alan Carr " I'm a bush basher"

    The lady has over time decided her future happiness lies with a male partner, what is so wrong with that.
    That isn't what she said on Alan Carr. She joked that people in the street yell lesbian at her and she said I prefer bush basher. In the exact same interview she said she doesn't like labels.

    There is a video of her on stage three years ago saying, "I'm not gay, I'm not straight, I'm not bisexual." She said the same thing in her tweets. Not once has she claimed to be straight now. She just said she wants a man at this point in time. People are just going over board. Shes been saying this all along, but everyone just assumed she was a lesbian and didn't want to listen.
  • trevvytrev21trevvytrev21 Posts: 16,973
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    Whedonite wrote: »
    Has she ever claimed she is sexuality attracted to women or did she just say she has dated them?

    Aren't these two things generally mutually exlusive, though? Why on earth would she date someone if she wasn't attracted to them.. :confused:

    We shouldn't have to label ourselves as anything, but unfortunately society is long way off that sort of revolution. Until then, we muddy along as best we can...

    Why has Jessie felt the need to share this, anyway? She's been banging on about it on Twitter.
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