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Please help me in this messed up situation
Sparklygal
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Please help me I've been on off with this guy for 4 years but he is a compulsive liar/drunk few times he's made out he's single and isn't resulted in me being punched in the face by his gf. My mate said he saw him looked really I'll and generally not well. I saw him the next wk and he asked me to meet him nothing went on just talked to him. I went out sat found out that not only has he been stealing from his family and people on street for drink money but is on community service for threatening his moms bf with a knife sad his gf told me this after finding out I met him. My behaviour is not good but he messes my head up
Anyway he's been kicked out by his gf but his ex gf from years ago who is married is now going round every day giving him booze and money so she can get sex out of him.
I'm finding it hard to cope as he used me last Thursday and he's now not getting his deserts and getting what he wants. I've got her phoning telling me when his ex is round with booze n money but then talking the husband telling me things from other side.
I've been dragged into something I didn't want to b dragged into. I said I told the gf I no longer want to b involved in this and she's gone round saying I said this I said that as she feels he's being brainwashed by other woman and I only told her this when she told me he said was a mental case and that he didn't fancy me
Anyway he's been kicked out by his gf but his ex gf from years ago who is married is now going round every day giving him booze and money so she can get sex out of him.
I'm finding it hard to cope as he used me last Thursday and he's now not getting his deserts and getting what he wants. I've got her phoning telling me when his ex is round with booze n money but then talking the husband telling me things from other side.
I've been dragged into something I didn't want to b dragged into. I said I told the gf I no longer want to b involved in this and she's gone round saying I said this I said that as she feels he's being brainwashed by other woman and I only told her this when she told me he said was a mental case and that he didn't fancy me
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1. Tell your ex you are not interested and he needs to sort his own problems out.
2. Tell the Ex GF you are not getting involved any more.
3. Don't speak to the ex-ex GF or her husband.
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You say you were used last Thursday and you say you've been dragged into something you didn't want to be dragged into.
But for those things to happen you must have surrendered your own power and your own ability to make choices so you need to take back that power and say 'no'' and then cut all contact. You should also get your own help and support from anyone who cares about you.
Perhaps, just before you do that, give them the number for the Jeremy Kyle Show because it sounds right up his street.
People like that will just bleed your will to live!
I bet Facebook is involved and somebody's poking somebody.
Excellent advice.
The last time I walked away and looked back I smacked my head on a bus stop.
Lesson learned.
So true. Very well put.
So what ignore them all. Who cares if he does or doesn't "fancy" you, seriously
You are right it is sordid having the gf moaning to me that he phones her begging her to take him bk after having the other girl there. Really not something I need..., he steals too stole off his nan and his friends
Block him aswell. It sounds like he doesn't care for you or anyone else either.
Don't waste anymore time on any of them.
You don't have his number? I'm sorry to say this but he really is just using you. I know its hard but don't be a fool, you deserve so much better.
WAKE UP!
How old are you, if he is not forcing you to do these things then walk away and value yourself a lot higher than you obviously do right now.
Unless of course you want to be his go to person when no one else will have him.
He will be infected soon enough, do you want that for yourself?