Katia - would you trust her?
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I'm admittedly and unashamedly no fan of Katia's but out of curiosity, wondered if those who are Katia fans would trust her with their own partner? You'd obviously have no doubt about your partners loyalties but would you really have Katia as a friend?
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True that temptations are always there but would you thrust temptation (in the form of Katia) into you partner's face by choosing her as a friend?
well, at least she got a giggle of it on national tv, didn't she? :eek:
Well said SWW.
She's still really young, trollface, and I don't think she's anywhere near ready for a serious relationship even though she might have thought she was. She needs to build up her self-esteem and gain confidence in herself instead of feeling that she needs a security blanket. It still doesn't mean she's not to be trusted around a friend's boyfriend/husband. I think if she had a real true friend, I doubt she'd betray the friendship. Just my opinion and gut feeling.....but could be wrong.
Aww kes.....that's so sweet. She needs somebody like you
Nice post, well said.
I thought it was sweet too and I don't even like her
She's 21, not 14. But, yes, that she's too young for me, both in absolute terms and in terms of maturity, is one of the reasons why I'd never have her as my girlfriend.
And, if that's true, then the thing to do is to say as much to her boyfriend, rather than to go off and kiss someone else. The fact that she kissed someone while going out with someone else makes the question of whether you could trust her not to kiss someone else if she was going out with you something of a no-brainer, no?
Huh!! Don't make me laugh. Do you trust anyone in that house? I mean do you, honestly?
Well first of all I did realise that she obviously was too young for you in terms of maturity and age etc. However, my daughters were that age at one time and I do understand the complicities of boyfriend troubles that they had, when I thought it was ridiculous given that they'd only known them for all of five minutes.
As for all this fuss about her having a boyfriend on the outside, I think she has been feeling guilty and mixed up about it. Most young people that are a bit immature and self-conscious like Kat, would be. Jonas honed in on her and swept her off her feet, flattered her and made a big fuss of her. Who's to say that her current boyfriend, all of four weeks (and rumoured to have fallen out with before BB) didn't pay as much attention to her as Jonas did?
It's been a surreal experience for her as it is going in the BB house. She'd have been on a high. Add Jonas to that and she got carried away. That's not to say that she's a serial cheat and homewrecker. If anything, she's acted exactly as most young insecure girls would do IMO.
I honestly feel sorry for her and the abuse that she's taken on this forum. Even Sophie didn't get this abuse and yet we all know that Liam had a girlfriend on the outside. Surely, she's just as guilty of breaking his relationship up? No? There's far too many double standards being applied to Kat.....when IMHO I think it's down to total snobbery (not by you personally)....but by the judgemental housemates we've got this year. Steph and Vinnie set all of that in motion and their fans have followed suit.
I was a bit surprised about Stephanie's reaction to Katia. She came across as being quite open minded when she was discussing Page 3 with Nicola but the 'orchid' analogy with Katia could possibly have hit a nerve with Stephanie. Maybe she lost a guy to a younger woman and sees Katia as the 'groupie' type who'd just jump into bed with the nearest star and her actions with Jonas all but confirmed it in her mind.
She strangely allowed Jonas' behaviour, excusing it by saying he was a 'mummy's boy'. He was the one doing the pursuing, which seems to have escaped her logic.