Did your parents ever argue in front of you?
Marie4eva
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whilst you were growing up or even now? How did you react?
Do you argue in front of your kids?
Do you argue in front of your kids?
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Marie4eva
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just out of curiosity and how behaviour affects others...I was reading something which made me think....
It is odd when you grow up like that to me that's just what Dad's did
Only for her to turn them away at the door.
What a feckin stupid post. Have you ever been in that situation?
I have [since my Mothers day]
Do you have an inckling of how hard it is to escape a violent relationship?
How terrifieying it is to live in that kind of fear.
You certainly don't seem to have any concept of how common this situation happens.
Please explain to me your reason for your post OP?
I am not being confrontaional, I am genuinely interested to know what your point is?
To be fair, most times they at least closed the kitchen or living room door before having it out, unless it was one of those spur of the moment arguments.
Yes my parents did argue in front of us but not very often. My mother didn't like conflict and my father didn't tend to argue, in that he didn't tend to repeat himself,
I didn't like it but it wasn't a major feature of my growing up,
Looking back after my mum lived with us before she died I realised she couldn't help herself and had some sort of mental problem. Possibly bi polar but was never diagnosed back in those days.
James seems like a great person, going by his posts on here
You lashing out obviously shows you were deeply affected by it but yeah you are being aggressive. Learn how to empathise with people because you're not the only one thats been through it and it doesn't give you a right to have a go at people because you're hurt.
I think for some this thread triggers those things that their mind has learnt to forget. So I apologise for that. The flak never bothers me to be honest because its just people lashing out for the hurt that caused them grief. I'm sure everybody has something that makes them feel uncomfortable.
My parents like most couples did have rows. It was weird seeing them argue and next minute they're normal...just verbal stuff. But I was reading a case study about it and it bothered me especially since I work with kids.
Thats good
Sorry to hear that. Reminds me of the movie provoked.
Is the case study online?
Yes they did.
That would be the very normal people who raised me.
I didn't particularly like it, but I also saw them resolving their issues and being ok later on.
Yes it's ok to have an argument in front of the children.
You also have to make sure those little angels. that you love so much, are not the next recruits for the new Omen movie 2015 and are not playing you like a play station sims game.
However if you suck as parents do drugs and smoke and drink like you don't care, Then up yours and stick the kids on ebay, they'd have a better chance in life.