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Belfast bakery refuses to bake cake with message supporting gay marriage on it

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    habbyhabby Posts: 10,027
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    Semillion wrote: »
    But if they don't stamp their feet and make a big fuss they wont get a) the publicity...b) the huge cash payout for *their* humiliation and *stress* and...c) they wont get to put yet another christian-run business out of business.

    They could have ordered the cake and done the writing on it themselves. Surely the cake was the main thing they wanted, not the bloody writing on it >:(.

    Nobody should be forced to write something they don't want to write.

    Well said :D

    No doubt this subject will run and run.........as usual!!!^_^
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    Well the openly gay people on this forum seem to be making childish remarks and kicking up a fuss over it.

    Hysterical :D
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    nanscombenanscombe Posts: 16,588
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    jesaya wrote: »
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    This is why I think it is important the law is clarified here - if necessary by a court case. The Equality Act is designed to protect individuals from discriminatory practices and I can't see direct discrimination here... but it might be a type of indirect discrimination (the Equality Commission think it is worth investigating)... so it needs to be made clear.

    Now there you may have something. The other week someone was asking whether a "No Dogs" policy which was strictly enforced, even against guide dogs, was a form of discrimination.
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    dan_blamiresdan_blamires Posts: 1,006
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    jesaya wrote: »
    No, not at all - I think it is important to clarify if there is an issue here in law or not. Discrimination in the provision of services is unlawful - and the better this is understood then the better we will be at preventing it and ensuring that people are treated equally.

    I think its something that could be sorted out by themselves. Maybe order a plain cake and write whatever message they please on it. Or try another baker. You know that type of thing.
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    aggsaggs Posts: 29,461
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    Shrike wrote: »
    Theres nothing to stop someone taking the cake on the ferry over to mainland UK for a fabulous gay wedding though;-)

    As someone who has had enough bother transporting a cake 2 miles the thought of a ferry ride is breakdown inducing :blush:
    I think I'd be tempted to buy local and delegate the stress :D
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    LyceumLyceum Posts: 3,399
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    aggs wrote: »
    They couldn't sell a gay wedding cake NI as it stands, because gay marriage has not been legalised there as yet.

    They can sell a wedding cake anywhere. Doesn't mean it has to be used at some illegal underground gay wedding ceremony.

    Murdering people is illegal too. But I could sell a cake depicting someone being murmured. Not sure what anyone would want one of those, but the point is. Just because it's illegal, there's no law saying 'making cakes depicting something illegal is also illegal'.
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    viertevierte Posts: 4,286
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    The jury maybe persuaded that the cake shop would refuse to sell a wedding cake to any gay couple, whith the happy couple on the cake and a congratulatory message on the cake. But would be happy to sell wedding cakes to straight couples with the happy couple on the cake and a.congratulatory message on the cake. So be desciminating against gay people.
    They could be persuaded about a hypothetical situation that hasn't happened? Really?
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    nanscombe wrote: »
    Would a baker be similarly challenged for refusing to write the hypothetical phrase "Leviticus XVIII" on a cake, one of the Bible verses used against homosexuality.

    All these mixed up analogies. Again we have a slogan ordered which could hypothetically attacks the baker rather than one which supports the customer. The correct analogy would be a 'SATAN ROCKS' cake ordered from a Christian baker.
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    nanscombenanscombe Posts: 16,588
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    Taglet wrote: »
    All these mixed up analogies. Again we have a slogan ordered which could hypothetically attacks the baker rather than one which supports the customer. The correct analogy would be a 'SATAN ROCKS' cake ordered from a Christian baker.

    .. and if the baker were gay and the customer a heterosexual Christian?
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    nanscombe wrote: »
    .. and if the baker were gay and the customer a heterosexual Christian?

    I dont believe there is a group of people are routinely discriminated against by people who are gay so I'm not sure I understand your question. Why would a Christian ordering a "God loves you all" cake offend someone who was gay? :confused:
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    nanscombenanscombe Posts: 16,588
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    A person, regardless of sexuality, is refused a cake with message "Support Gay Marriage"

    Hypothetically a person, regardless of sexuality, refused a cake with an anti gay slogan.

    Were the cakes refused because of the (unknown) sexuality of the person ordering or the wording on the cake?
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    jesayajesaya Posts: 35,597
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    I think its something that could be sorted out by themselves. Maybe order a plain cake and write whatever message they please on it. Or try another baker. You know that type of thing.

    Missing the point though - you can always give in to discrimination and unequal treatment, but we have laws that say you don't have to and we are all entitled to use them.
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    nanscombe wrote: »
    A person, regardless of sexuality, is refused a cake with message "Support Gay Marriage"

    Hypothetically a person, regardless of sexuality, refused a cake with an anti gay slogan.

    Were the cakes refused because of the (unknown) sexuality of the person ordering or the wording on the cake?

    In what way was the slogan anti gay?
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    dan_blamiresdan_blamires Posts: 1,006
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    jesaya wrote: »
    Missing the point though - you can always give in to discrimination and unequal treatment, but we have laws that say you don't have to and we are all entitled to use them.

    Of course. But in general we turn to the law in serious matters. Using it in cake cases looks petulent.
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    SemillionSemillion Posts: 612
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    jesaya wrote: »
    Missing the point though - you can always give in to discrimination and unequal treatment, but we have laws that say you don't have to and we are all entitled to use them.

    The baker was happy to bake the cake, just not write 'support gay marriage' on it. Should a gun have been held to his head to make him do so? because the equality commission is effectively doing just that. 'Bake the cake, inscribe it as the gay man wants and you'll avoid financial ruin!'.

    Honestly, does being pedantic, demanding and a litigious cry-baby come part and parcel with being gay these days...?
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    Of course. But in general we turn to the law in serious matters. Using it in cake cases looks petulent.

    Discrimination is a serious matter and if it goes to court that will be the reason.
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    Semillion wrote: »
    The baker was happy to bake the cake, just not write 'support gay marriage' on it. Should a gun have been held to his head to make him do so? because the equality commission is effectively doing just that. 'Bake the cake, inscribe it as the gay man wants and you'll avoid financial ruin!'.

    Honestly, does being pedantic, demanding and a litigious cry-baby come part and parcel with being gay these days...?

    If the "Christian" baker could not face piping "support gay marriage" on a cake, then another non Christian baker could have done it. It is the shops responsibility to make sure that the service is equally provided but how the shop managed that was up to them.
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    SemillionSemillion Posts: 612
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    Taglet wrote: »
    Discrimination is a serious matter and if it goes to court that will be the reason.

    We are talking about a bloody cake here.....how does one discriminate against a cake?
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    dan_blamiresdan_blamires Posts: 1,006
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    Taglet wrote: »
    Discrimination is a serious matter and if it goes to court that will be the reason.

    Cake refusal. Extremely serious stuff.^_^
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    SemillionSemillion Posts: 612
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    Taglet wrote: »
    If the "Christian" baker could not face piping "support gay marriage" on a cake, then another non Christian baker could have done it. It is the shops responsibility to make sure that the service is equally provided but how the shop managed that was up to them.

    So if you want a cake with whatever written on it it is my responsibility to see that you get it against all odds and not yours to go and get it yourself...?

    Is it really worth all this rubbish...?

    Gay people need to have a word with themselves.
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    Semillion wrote: »
    We are talking about a bloody cake here.....how does one discriminate against a cake?

    Could I suggest you read from the beginning of the thread if you think the entire debate has been about a bloody cake. I was talking about law and if action was taken against the baker it would on the basis of discrimination against a specified group.
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    Cake refusal. Extremely serious stuff.^_^

    Read above
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    TagletTaglet Posts: 20,286
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    Semillion wrote: »
    So if you want a cake with whatever written on it it is my responsibility to see that you get it against all odds and not yours to go and get it yourself...?

    Is it really worth all this rubbish...?

    Gay people need to have a word with themselves.

    I'm not sure where you factor in this case....are you the baker?
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    dan_blamiresdan_blamires Posts: 1,006
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    Taglet wrote: »
    Read above

    Yeah I did. Serious serious business cakes.
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    maidinscotlandmaidinscotland Posts: 5,648
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    Sshh.....we're NOT allowed to be seen to criticise any members of the gay community on these forums
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