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dating question, would this be fair enough to ask?
ive been dating this guy since early jan, he asked me to be his boyfriend at the end of jan. we get along great, havent had full sex yet, its difficult with us both finding alone time we both live at home still. im not using any dating apps anymore as i like him and dont want to cheat. im hoping hes not either. hes pretty busy during the week so tend to see each other once or twice a week...
would i be weird if i told him that im not chatting to anyone else and that i want to ask how he feels our relationship is going so far. i dont want to come off as needy but i dont want to waste my time either. he says he really likes me but after the last year with timewasters i feel a bit jaded...
what do you think ?
would i be weird if i told him that im not chatting to anyone else and that i want to ask how he feels our relationship is going so far. i dont want to come off as needy but i dont want to waste my time either. he says he really likes me but after the last year with timewasters i feel a bit jaded...
what do you think ?
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Seems fair enough to me. Very reasonable
I wouldnt have the "where is this going" talk though.
I agree with this, its still early days, I think you could gauge his response if you said you were not using these apps these days.. see how he responds..
how would i bring it up though
Hard to say, without knowing them really, and how you speak with one another...
Maybe say someone had been in touch to meet up, but you don't feel right about it, you are enjoying seeming them and want to see were it goes etc, they'll either steer you in one direction or another, probably giving you a good gauge of their interest.