Being Gay

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  • Paul237Paul237 Posts: 8,654
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    Rowieboy wrote: »
    He's 30 ffs!

    Not all gay men come out at the same time, you know...
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,620
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    Rowieboy wrote: »
    He's 30 ffs!

    he wasn't replying to paul lol rowieboy!!! :D
  • Jane Doh!Jane Doh! Posts: 43,307
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    pauluk wrote: »
    Yes because i dont like people slagging of gays. I was bullied in school and had a terrible time. I dont want to be reminded.

    Who's doing that?
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,620
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    pauluk wrote: »
    Yes because i dont like people slagging of gays. I was bullied in school and had a terrible time. I dont want to be reminded.

    sometimes our past helps our future .... you are not in school now, try to put aside the bad times & share the good times :)
  • OhWhenTheSaintsOhWhenTheSaints Posts: 12,531
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    Paul237 wrote: »
    Not all gay men come out at the same time, you know...

    That's not why we're suprised you're 30 :p
  • RowieboyRowieboy Posts: 1,446
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    So is he 30 or not?
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    pauluk wrote: »
    Yes because i dont like people slagging of gays. I was bullied in school and had a terrible time. I dont want to be reminded.

    I don't like gay men and women collectively being referred to as "gays". Should I report your post?
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,620
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    Rowieboy wrote: »
    So is he 30 or not?


    yes he is :D
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 10,561
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    I'm sorry to hear you feel like this. How old are you and have you come out yet?

    I'm 19 and have came out to my friends. I hang about with a group of straight guys so obviously there's been alot of jokes about the subject since I've told them. It's nothing I can't handle but it still annoys me because there's nothing I can do about it. It's awkward when they sit and talk about girls they'd **** and I have to sit there uncomfortable hoping they'll change the subject, and whenever we watch TV and a half naked guy comes on the screen I can feel everyone staring at me to see how I'll react. I'm dreading going out clubbing and stuff because while my mates will all be able to get girls easy (as they always do) I'll be alone. I'm dreading whenever I DO find someone and we all go out with our partners and it'll be me that gets stared at for walking down the street with a guy while my mates get no problem at all. I'm dreading telling my family and bringing someone home, I'm dreading telling anyone else I know, I'm dreading all the awkward silences whenever I tell anyone and I'm dreading the stupid jokes that my mates crack every single day about it.

    If anyone seriously thinks being gay is a choice they are a ****ing moron (another subject, I know).
  • Jane Doh!Jane Doh! Posts: 43,307
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    That's not why we're suprised you're 30 :p

    Different Paul, I think.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 16,986
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    Rowieboy wrote: »
    So is he 30 or not?

    According to profile and another post, yes he is.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,764
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    It does one no good, gazing at one's big old gay navel for too long.
  • paulukpauluk Posts: 193
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    That's not why we're suprised you're 30 :p

    Why are you surprised?
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,421
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    That's an adorable word.

    Lol! It is one of my faves to use ;)
  • OhWhenTheSaintsOhWhenTheSaints Posts: 12,531
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    pauluk wrote: »
    Why are you surprised?

    Because, honestly, you're not acting like a 30 year old should. You're being irrational, threatening to report everyone that doesn't agree.

    Calm down! :)
  • AddisonianAddisonian Posts: 16,377
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    pauluk wrote: »
    Yes because i dont like people slagging of gays. I was bullied in school and had a terrible time. I dont want to be reminded.
    Nobody here is "slagging of [sic] gays" as far as I can see. That's a shame you had a tough time in school but you're the only one bringing it up.
  • RowieboyRowieboy Posts: 1,446
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    I don't like gay men and women collectively being referred to as "gays". Should I report your post?

    Chester666 constantly refers to heteros. Is that acceptable? I suspect that it isn't.
  • Paul237Paul237 Posts: 8,654
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    That's not why we're suprised you're 30 :p

    I'm not 30.
  • OhWhenTheSaintsOhWhenTheSaints Posts: 12,531
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    Why are there 2 pauls?? This is confusing.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,764
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    Paul237 wrote: »
    I'm not 30.
    Report them for getting your age wrong forthwith!! :mad::mad::mad:
  • Paul237Paul237 Posts: 8,654
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    Why are there 2 pauls?? This is confusing.

    Have you only just noticed? Haha.
  • GlowbotGlowbot Posts: 14,847
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    Paul237 wrote: »
    Have you only just noticed? Haha.
    It's probably easier for you to spot, since you are one of them.
    I don't think everyone else has.
  • Paul237Paul237 Posts: 8,654
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    Report them for getting your age wrong forthwith!! :mad::mad::mad:

    Again, wrong Paul. It's the other one who's said he'll report people.

    Keep up!
  • paulukpauluk Posts: 193
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    Shadow2009 wrote: »
    I'm 19 and have came out to my friends. I hang about with a group of straight guys so obviously there's been alot of jokes about the subject since I've told them. It's nothing I can't handle but it still annoys me because there's nothing I can do about it. It's awkward when they sit and talk about girls they'd **** and I have to sit there uncomfortable hoping they'll change the subject, and whenever we watch TV and a half naked guy comes on the screen I can feel everyone staring at me to see how I'll react. I'm dreading going out clubbing and stuff because while my mates will all be able to get girls easy (as they always do) I'll be alone. I'm dreading whenever I DO find someone and we all go out with our partners and it'll be me that gets stared at for walking down the street with a guy while my mates get no problem at all. I'm dreading telling my family and bringing someone home, I'm dreading telling anyone else I know, I'm dreading all the awkward silences whenever I tell anyone and I'm dreading the stupid jokes that my mates crack every single day about it.

    If anyone seriously thinks being gay is a choice they are a ****ing moron (another subject, I know).
    Totally agree with you. It not a choice. Sorry you find it hard and i wish you well for the future.
  • edExedEx Posts: 13,460
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    Why are there 2 pauls?? This is confusing.
    I believe there may even be more than two, unless Schofield and Gascoigne are both posting in this thread.
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