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    AddisonianAddisonian Posts: 16,377
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    Some people actually really suit bleach blonde hair.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    Addisonian wrote: »
    Some people actually really suit bleach blonde hair.

    Agreed, some do.
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    exlordlucanexlordlucan Posts: 35,375
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    Lexii-Mae wrote: »
    Yes I do, and I think it looks amazing on me. I don't dress slutty, and neither do I dress in tracksuits or cheap tatty uggs or anything like that, I am a clean and presentable person, that's loves buying nice clothes and shoes.

    You sound a bit of a snob to me.
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    Swanandduck2Swanandduck2 Posts: 5,502
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    'Bleached' hair sounds awful. Blonde highlights brings up a totally different image. I think really overdyed hair looks a bit chavvy (or skangery as we say here in Ireland) as does too much make up or too short dresses that show your knickers.
    It's not a new thing though. For instance if you read an Agatha Christie book and she describes someone as having dyed blonde hair and thin plucked eyebrows you immmediately know she's trying to tell you 'this person is common'.
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    BlueEyedMrsPBlueEyedMrsP Posts: 12,178
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    I think people can seem snobby about different things depending on their personal circumstances.

    Judging others is normal, to some extent, but openly commenting on it is another matter; we're all capable of holding our tongues and being tactful.

    Making a judgment online isn't quite the same thing as saying it out loud to someone's face, so I try to remember that when I read what people post on a forum. They might be playing devil's advocate or trying to rile others up.

    There's nothing wrong with being common or being at the lower end of the financial spectrum, but to me a 'chav' is more about the behavior than appearance. Someone with a potty mouth gobbing off strangers is a chav, no matter what they're wearing or what their employment status is.
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    KittyKreamKittyKream Posts: 4,329
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    I currently have blonde highlights but I don't consider them 'chavy'. I have been blonde,redhaired and brunette and don't judge others on their hair colour.

    Actually I think the term 'chavy' is just a lazy redundant stereotype that people adopt when they want to judge others.

    Let them carry on. Do what makes you happy.
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    swehsweh Posts: 13,665
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    I'm a snob.

    I don't judge people based on their bleached hair alone. If the hair is part of a package looking like Lola from EastEnders then if the shoe fits...

    Psh, even watching EastEnders is considered chavvy! I guess knowing that reference makes me and my raven hair a chav. Everyone's a chav! You wear hoop earrings? Chav. Adidas shoes? Chav. Track bottoms to lounge in? Chav. Highland Spring over Evian? Chav.
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    GeordiePaulGeordiePaul Posts: 1,323
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    There's a girl where I work who had very bright red hair and frankly I thought she'd be a right chav when I first saw her, turns out she is the complete opposite, and very intelligent with it.

    Where I work most people would be considered chavvy, but there are done properly sound people here, more so than many who would appear respectable. Hell even I probably look and sound like one to many but that couldn't be further from the truth.

    Appearances can be deceptive ;)
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    FrightfulBoarFrightfulBoar Posts: 885
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    Why do so many women dye their hair blonde? Is it desperation to look good? Social pressure?
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    KittyKreamKittyKream Posts: 4,329
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    Why do so many women dye their hair blonde? Is it desperation to look good? Social pressure?

    Well I can't speak for other ladies but I just felt like a change.

    Its not really a big deal tbh.
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    shmiskshmisk Posts: 7,963
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    KittyKream wrote: »
    I currently have blonde highlights but I don't consider them 'chavy'. I have been blonde,redhaired and brunette and don't judge others on their hair colour.

    Actually I think the term 'chavy' is just a lazy redundant stereotype that people adopt when they want to judge others.

    Let them carry on. Do what makes you happy.

    Using the word chav ususally says more about the user then the person they are describing I think
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    KittyKreamKittyKream Posts: 4,329
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    There's a girl where I work who had very bright red hair and frankly I thought she'd be a right chav when I first saw her, turns out she is the complete opposite, and very intelligent with it.

    Where I work most people would be considered chavvy, but there are done properly sound people here, more so than many who would appear respectable. Hell even I probably look and sound like one to many but that couldn't be further from the truth.

    Appearances can be deceptive ;)

    They really can.
    People should not judge books by their cover,of course I think we are innately programmed to do that.
    But I try not to as I am aware that appearance often contrasts with character.
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    KittyKreamKittyKream Posts: 4,329
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    shmisk wrote: »
    Using the word chav ususally says more about the user then the person they are describing I think

    Agreed,same with any label

    People are all individuals and should be accepted as such. Its just stereotyping and trying to pigeon hole.
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    swehsweh Posts: 13,665
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    Why do so many women dye their hair blonde? Is it desperation to look good? Social pressure?

    You tryna say only blondes look good?

    :D
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    FrightfulBoarFrightfulBoar Posts: 885
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    sweh wrote: »
    You tryna say only blondes look good?

    Haha no, I would just say it.

    I don't have a solid preference for hair colour, but dyed blonde is my least favourite just because I like the natural look.
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    MissliMissli Posts: 3,839
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    Ha, ha not saying what colour my hair is currently, and I peroxided beforehand for vividness. ;-) Wearing proudly! :D

    Then again I please myself with how I dress etc.
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    PictoPicto Posts: 24,270
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    Do many males dye their hair blonde?

    I can think of a few celebrities who have dyed their hair blonde, but mainly for film roles.

    Ryan Gosling - The Place Beyond The Pines.
    Tom Felton - Harry Potter.
    Some others....

    My brother dyed his hair blonde once but he's not famous even though he wants to be.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 7,182
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    Chav shmav. If you're looking down your nose at someone you deem beneath you, you can bet that someone is looking down their nose at you because they see you as beneath them. What hair colour has to do with it though is another matter entirely.
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    BlueEyedMrsPBlueEyedMrsP Posts: 12,178
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    Why do so many women dye their hair blonde? Is it desperation to look good? Social pressure?

    A book I read a few years ago said something about women with blonde hair produce more estrogen so men are biologically programmed to find that attractive. Personally, I think natural blonde hair is rare so women try to emulate that in a bid to be a bit more special or get noticed. It's not a bad thing, people do all sorts of things to stand out among their peers.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 22,736
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    Lexii-Mae wrote: »
    I was reading some old threads and come across people on here saying that anyone with bleach blonde hair is basically skanky and chavvy and just in general use the word chav to define anyone that they think they are superior to.

    How many people are fed up with the overuse of this word?
    And does it make anyone else angry that some people on here would automatically judge you as below them, just because you like having bleach blonde hair?

    I have bleached blonde hair and I am a chav... they can call away:D
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 22,736
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    Why do so many women dye their hair blonde? Is it desperation to look good? Social pressure?

    For me it is because my skin is that pale (almost translucent) my natural colour (brown) really does not make me look well at all.

    I wish I could wear my natural colour well, it would be a lot cheaper but it honeslty makes me look ill, especially as I do not wear make up 95% of the time.
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    TardisSteveTardisSteve Posts: 8,077
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    Grammar snobs really annoy me
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    ShrewnShrewn Posts: 6,855
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    Lexii-Mae wrote: »
    I was reading some old threads and come across people on here saying that anyone with bleach blonde hair is basically skanky and chavvy and just in general use the word chav to define anyone that they think they are superior to.

    How many people are fed up with the overuse of this word?
    And does it make anyone else angry that some people on here would automatically judge you as below them, just because you like having bleach blonde hair?

    Balls to them, be true to you and be happy in life. People like to sneer, it makes them feel better. Rise above it and smile :)
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    Trsvis_BickleTrsvis_Bickle Posts: 9,202
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    Grammar snobs really annoy me

    I know. How snobbish it is to be able to speak and write one's native language correctly. How dare they.


    BTW you missed a full-stop.:)

    Happy to help.
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    pugamopugamo Posts: 18,039
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    I think OP fancies herself.
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