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"Racist" disabled pensioner is banned from using Sainsbury's home delivery service

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A disabled pensioner claims she has been banned from using the Sainsbury’s home delivery service after describing one of their drivers as a ‘coloured gentleman’.
Marian Burke, 73, says she used the term entirely innocently to refer to a ‘lovely’ deliveryman who works for the supermarket.
But she says a manager at Sainsbury’s immediately branded her a racist for saying the word and said her custom was no longer welcome.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2477153/Disabled-pensioner-banned-using-Sainsburys-home-delivery-service-calling-driver-coloured-gentleman.html

It's very wrong for Sainsbury's to punish an old lady for using language that was quite normal and acceptable in her youth. She clearly didn't mean to be offensive to anyone. :confused:
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    Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    If there is not more to that story, I'll eat my laptop.



    EDIT: Oh look, laptop is safe.
    He said: 'Mrs Burke's version of events does not reflect our experience of her. She was not solely banned for the use of the word 'coloured' but for a range of racial slurs on three separate occasions, used in an aggressive manner against our colleagues.
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    DinkyDoobieDinkyDoobie Posts: 17,786
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    She had a black carer with her when she made the call who said it wasn't offensive just another bunch of hand wringing liberals trying to look righteous.

    calling him a coloured gentleman is offensive but a black youth chest bumping him and calling him the n word would be brushed off.
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    lola_skyelola_skye Posts: 21,328
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    I don't get why she had to make reference to the man's skin colour. He would of had his name badge on him and anyway they would of known which driver delivered her goods. You can't blame old age for racism.
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    trevgotrevgo Posts: 28,241
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    .....and we all know who will get the benefit of the doubt on this one......
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    lightdragonlightdragon Posts: 19,059
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    You have to love the "it was perfectly acceptable in her day" excuse. :D

    I defend her right to be as racist as she likes, I also defend Sains' right to ban her from getting home delivery if they want to.
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    Thunder LipsThunder Lips Posts: 1,660
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    Is there a reason you didn't highlight their version of events?
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    kippehkippeh Posts: 6,655
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    lola_skye wrote: »
    I don't get why she had to make reference to the man's skin colour. He would of had his name badge on him and anyway they would of known which driver delivered her goods. You can't blame old age for racism.

    As long as you aren't using it to denigrate somebody, why can't it be as useful a description as a person's hair colour, or their height, whether they were wearing glasses, whether they were in a wheelchair?
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    DinkyDoobieDinkyDoobie Posts: 17,786
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    What did he look like?

    What?

    I dont know.... he was black.

    Did he look like a bitch!?
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    lola_skyelola_skye Posts: 21,328
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    kippeh wrote: »
    As long as you aren't using it to denigrate somebody, why can't it be as useful a description as a person's hair colour, or their height, whether they were wearing glasses, whether they were in a wheelchair?

    Because it irrelevant . He would be wearing his name badge. They all do
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 68,508
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    She doesn't seem very forthcoming on what words she used during her other two phone calls, the ones described as a range of racist slurs, does she?
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    DinkyDoobieDinkyDoobie Posts: 17,786
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    She doesn't seem very forthcoming on what words she used during her other two phone calls, the ones described as a range of racist slurs, does she?

    And her carer who was with her at the time who is also black say's she wasn't offensive.
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    skipjack79skipjack79 Posts: 3,250
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    She had a black carer with her when she made the call who said it wasn't offensive just another bunch of hand wringing liberals trying to look righteous.

    It's blatantly obvious to anyone with an ounce of common sense that she didn't call the supermarket to racially slur the delivery driver who she was praising.

    Unfortunately she spoke to a complete bumpkin who interpreted a totally innocent descriptive term as a vicious personal attack.

    These are the times we live in.
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    Thunder LipsThunder Lips Posts: 1,660
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    lola_skye wrote: »
    Because it irrelevant . He would be wearing his name badge. They all do
    She doesn't have time to be reading name badges, what with worrying about all these coloureds around.
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    Thunder LipsThunder Lips Posts: 1,660
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    skipjack79 wrote: »
    It's blatantly obvious to anyone with an ounce of common sense that she didn't call the supermarket to racially slur the delivery driver who she was praising.

    Unfortunately she spoke to a complete bumpkin who interpreted a totally innocent descriptive term as a vicious personal attack.

    These are the times we live in.
    ...
    "After a string of mistakes in recent weeks with deliveries arriving without several essentials, she called the shop to inform them of their error." - yeah I bet she was ringing up full of praise indeed :D:D:D
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    GeneralissimoGeneralissimo Posts: 6,289
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    Sainsbury's should be ashamed of themselves, how are older people expected to keep up with which terms are currently considered politically correct? It's laughable how they can describe her as 'aggressive'. The poor woman can barely walk :(
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    JB3JB3 Posts: 9,308
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    She had a black carer with her when she made the call who said it wasn't offensive just another bunch of hand wringing liberals trying to look righteous.

    calling him a coloured gentleman is offensive but a black youth chest bumping him and calling him the n word would be brushed off.
    careful now wouldn't want you to injure yourself with that knee jerk.
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    jackie_Fletcherjackie_Fletcher Posts: 919
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    lola_skye wrote: »
    I don't get why she had to make reference to the man's skin colour. He would of had his name badge on him and anyway they would of known which driver delivered her goods. You can't blame old age for racism.

    Why not. She was describing him and he was black ffs.
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    JakobjoeJakobjoe Posts: 8,235
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    ..ten quid for some shopping delivery ...id find another supermarket that offers free delivery .
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 8,916
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    lola_skye wrote: »
    Because it irrelevant . He would be wearing his name badge. They all do

    She probably couldn't pronounce it....

    Never mind, the old crone will be dead soon.
    Why not. She was describing him and he was black ffs.

    You should see the problem some people here have picking out the only black person at a dinner and dance ball...."him over there with the jacket and dickie bow on...no, to the left of him...no, the other one.....no, him eating the canape....
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    Flat MattFlat Matt Posts: 7,023
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    skipjack79 wrote: »
    It's blatantly obvious to anyone with an ounce of common sense that she didn't call the supermarket to racially slur the delivery driver who she was praising.

    Unfortunately she spoke to a complete bumpkin who interpreted a totally innocent descriptive term as a vicious personal attack.

    These are the times we live in.

    ^This.
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    JB3JB3 Posts: 9,308
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    Sainsbury's should be ashamed of themselves, how are older people expected to keep up with which terms are currently considered politically correct? It's laughable how they can describe her as 'aggressive'. The poor woman can barely walk :(
    Haaaah!

    She can barely walk, how can she be racist?
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    Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    ... So everyone is choosing to ignore Sainsbury's statement that it was in fact three separate occasions and the word 'coloured' was not the issue?

    Right, OK. Let me try again.

    Bloody PC do gooders trying to ruin our lives with their PC bullshit rahrahrahhhhhh poor old lady.
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    NX-74205NX-74205 Posts: 4,691
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    lola_skye wrote: »
    Because it irrelevant . He would be wearing his name badge. They all do

    Do 'they' then? Care to explain exactly what you mean by 'they'? Or is just a commonly used word that can easily be turned around to fit an agenda?
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    Keiō LineKeiō Line Posts: 12,979
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    skipjack79 wrote: »
    It's blatantly obvious to anyone with an ounce of common sense that she didn't call the supermarket to racially slur the delivery driver who she was praising.

    Unfortunately she spoke to a complete bumpkin who interpreted a totally innocent descriptive term as a vicious personal attack.

    These are the times we live in.
    Only if you believe her version. I believe Sainsburies, because when they have "messed up" in the past they have freely admitted and apologized for it.
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    skipjack79skipjack79 Posts: 3,250
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    ...
    "After a string of mistakes in recent weeks with deliveries arriving without several essentials, she called the shop to inform them of their error." - yeah I bet she was ringing up full of praise indeed :D:D:D

    If you read the article, she was complaining about the supermarket, not the delivery driver who has nothing to do with selecting her shopping. She referred to him as "lovely", as her black carer confirmed.
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